I like this girl thats 21. she had been freinds with my older brother untill he left for college, and now she hangs with me all the time. I've liked her for a year now, and i'm pretty sure she might like me. she's 3 and 1/2 years older than me, and im not sure what to do. i dont want to ask her, becouse if im wrong one of my best freinds is gone, and my bro would be furios. i cant tell wether the flurting and fooling around we do is becouse we like eachother, or if its becouse she thinks me as a little brother. please help! thanx!
2006-10-19 11:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by fenomenoexcepcionaldelfutbol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age is just a number, but in some instances, the numbers mean different things and ARE too much of a difference.
17 and 21 is a difference. 22 and 26 are not, 34 and 42 are not, 46 and 54 are.
The reason is because different ages are looking for different things in their lives. At 17, you have college and the college experience to look forward to. At 21, she will be finishing college and going out into the work world. Don't cut yourself short by being locked in a relationship during "the college experience".
Life will be plenty complicated later on, don't go there yet.
2006-10-19 11:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference isn't bad (I'm in love with a girl 4 years younger than me), but the fact that you are under 18 means you need to wait until you turn 18 before you date her. Just be patient. Once you are 18 there is nothing wrong with having a relationship with her. As I said, there is a 4 year difference between me and the girl I'm in love with, but I just turned 24, and she's about to turn 20, so that's a bit different than 17 and 21.
2006-10-19 18:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when she is 21, then that is illegal. Wait until you 18 and although that's still to far apart (for your ages), it's at least legal.
2006-10-19 18:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I smell danger. As you get older, a 3.5-year gap in age is not a big deal. However, she is still a young woman herself and it sounds to me like she is toying with you to prove her own feminine wiles...exerting her power over you. Why? Sorry, but young men like yourself are viewed by these vamps as easy to impress, easy to turn-on, easy 'cause just a bat of their eyelashes makes you blush with pleasure. My best friend in college was one of these...toyed with boys and threw them away...had a good laugh after she slept with them and they fell in love with her, too. Do not fall in love with this woman. Turn the cards - you take charge. Ask her what's up. Be bold, be strong, be the man...
2006-10-19 18:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only 3 years apart so what's the big deal
2006-10-19 18:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont u playfull ask her "what types of guys do you like?"
see her reaction...if she likes u, i am sure she will give u some good hints...good luck
and no, the age difference isnt too bad
2006-10-19 18:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its not legal wait till your 18....
2006-10-19 18:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not to far apart but make sure you now how to be aman iight
2006-10-19 18:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 word 4 u
ILLEGAL
2006-10-19 18:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, but ur a minor right
2006-10-19 18:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋