ok, my b/f and i are doing really well actually. He tells me that he loves me all the time, and still calls me when he usually does, but then again i am getting kinda scared. Because he tells me that i can't talk to any other guy like flirty like. But then i see that he is talking to his "friend" that is a girl, and it just seems flirty like. Then i see that he asked this girl for her number, but i guess he said he was setting her up with his best friend. I don't know what to think, because he always gets mad at me for not even doing anything, but then he goes off and gets some girls number and talks to this girl that i absolutely dislike. Please give me help!
2006-10-19 11:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by meangel15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i tell him to not ask for girls numbers without getting into fights?
2006-10-19 11:09:13 · update #1
Sounds like he has some insecurity and trust issues. You should probably sit him down and talk with him plainly about this double standard. Be patient with him, don't be accusative, and be open. Tell him you love him, but you want to fix this double standard.
I think it is perfectly ok for guys to have friends who are girls, and girls to have friends who are guys, even if they are in a relationship. But the person in the relationship needs to show themselves trustworth and also trust the person they are with.
You might also check yourself to see if you have given him any reason not to trust you (I'm not saying you have, but it doesn't hurt to take a look at oneself.) Or better yet, ask him if you have ever done anything like that. Ask him if he trusts you. If he trusts you, let him know that he has nothing to worry about even if you have guy friends, just so long as you have nothing to worry about even if he has friends who are girls. Be patient with him, and work it out together.
2006-10-19 11:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok to begin with....Guy are the more jelauos of the 2 sexes....If he sees that you are a flirtacious kind of girl then of course he is not gonna like you hanging out with other guys....if he was flirty with her then tell him something.....Also my girl is really flirty and touchy feely but she doesnt notice it...so try and notice what you do
2006-10-19 18:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarten up Girlfriend. He's doing exactly what he doesn't want you to do. Why doesn't need to get mad at you for asking him about this girl he talking to, claiming to be only talking to he to hook her up w/his friend...what...is his friend slow, and can't get a girl on his own. And please, please, please don't be fooled just cause he tells y you he loves you all the time. Jesse Jackson, Bill Clinton, and Bill Cosby all told there wives they loved them, and look at the dumb ask sh*t they got themselves involved in.
He's more than likely fu*king that girl right under your nose, but you don't wanna see or smell it.
2006-10-19 18:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like he doesn't trust you, but expects you to trust him... I think that maybe you should ask him if he trusts you, then explain that you feel trapped because of his "rules" he set for you, that he doesn't evem follow. Remember, you do whatever YOU want because its YOUR life, not his to control. If things dont work out like that... PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA hunny...
2006-10-19 18:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is real possessive with you and that is not right. He doesn't love you if he did love he would not treat you that way. Don't waist your time with some that will never love you. Look for someone that will respect you and love you.
2006-10-19 18:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by xizonx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol my bf sorta does the same thing and doesant realize it so i got upset and told him how upset that made me and how exactly i felt and he quit! he even called the girl up and told her he didnt like her like that and it would be better if she didnt talk to him anymore...
2006-10-19 18:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by sarah g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur are a young kid in the stage of growing up confide in ur mom she will help before it is too late.
2006-10-19 18:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋