I am looking for a guy to hold me close and tell me he loves me. But, none of the guys are interested in me and if they are they are not attractive. What am I supposed to do?
2006-10-19 10:58:46 · 21 answers · asked by A true mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A long time ago a woman told me that I always had my standards too high for most men and you can never find a good one like that.
She also said that the one for you could be the very one your are ignoring all the time.....
I must say she is right. I always looked for tall, big, muscles. But when i gave a skinny man tall guy my attention.... before i realized it I was in love.
There are many good guys out there but no one gives them the attention that they need also. Try to understand that not everyone is perfect and you will be surprise at what you may find. They can be more romantic than most men.
2006-10-19 11:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are looking for something to fill a void you may have had in your life growing up. Don't be in such a hurry. When the time is right, Mr Right will come along as usually when you least expect it. Find something else to occupy your time and fulfill your life at the moment. Wrong choices are usually made when we are in the state of mind you seem to be in. Having a guy right now is not going to make life full. We make out of life what we put into it. Until you become pleased with yourself and who you are as a person, no one will make you happy. Good looking or other wise.
2006-10-19 11:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Margie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want an attractive guy to hold you close and tell you he loves you, and you are attractive enough yourself, then that's no problem. You can get plenty of them to do just that, I just hope you don't expect them to mean it as well.
See the person in the mirror? Get to know them and love them first before wanting or expecting others to.
2006-10-19 11:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking cause if you give up then you will never find that guy to hold you the way you want to be held. All things that are worth while are not easy and do not just happen with out you taking action to make it such.
2006-10-19 11:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive, not attractive, superficial or character? Have your cake and eat it too! Well? Keep dating. Eventually you may find the one and must accept warts and all but whatever you do be nice. The others may have viewed you as the "unattractive superficial" one?
2006-10-19 11:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by T.T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just live life, do what you have to do as far as work, school etc.... don't be anxious to have a man, one day you'll just meet someone unexpected. Keep yourself busy and continue to help make yourself a better person. Make sure you have no baggage from previous relationships. Be independent, don't ever make a man think you need him ; )
2006-10-19 11:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait be patient the right guy will come along. Im not sure how old you are but I would assume that you are young. remember that us males are not that bright when it comes to romance. Most of us need to be trained by a woman to know how
2006-10-19 11:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make life great as a single...when a good match for you comes along, you'll be prepared to be a good partner...
The harder we go looking for someone, the higher chances of us making a poor choice...
2006-10-19 11:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of guys that will treat you the way you deserved to be treated, hold you close, and treat you like the pincess you are, but it is up to you to pick the right one
2006-10-19 11:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Trayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience. Maybe once you get to know some of these guys, one will suddenly be more attractive to you.
2006-10-19 11:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋