Each time i drink i remember her... we broke up in 21/6/2005!!
I have been with 3 different girls after her.. it was like kissing a table after her..!!!!
2006-10-19 10:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by Doublethink..!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll move on eventually...things like this take time. take the opportunity to enjoy being single for a while, its not as bad as people make it to be!
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2006-10-19 10:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by closetoptimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking to start with. Next thing you should do is find Jesus. If you believe in Heaven and Hell. What will happen to you when you die. One or the other. Find Jesus and then put God first. When you do this he will help all your wound heal. And if you think that you have to get better or to fix yourself before you can find Jesus, that is wrong. We were born sinners and throught the grace of God and by Jesus's stripes we are healed. He wants you right where you are with your life. Ask Jesus into your heart. And ask forgiveness for your sins. Then don't repeat. Find a good bible based church to get plugged into where you will find very supportive people. 4 Square churches are good. And then Grow in God and put him first. You will soon see the changes in yourself and have the support you need to get through the rough times. I pray you be blessed.
2006-10-19 18:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by stullhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to mentally acknowledge that this chapter of your life is done, over, gone, or you can keep reading it over and over again like a worn out novel. Give yourself and these other ladies a break and look for what is lovely and unique in them. Have an open mind to the beauty in people...be patient, be kind, try a gentle kiss and don't hop into bed just 'cause your libido insists. Get over what's-her-face and move on with dignity and the wisdom you gained.
2006-10-19 18:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay sober! It is easier to remember someone and feel blue when drinking! Kissing tables for a while should help! I know it is hard to get over a good kisser! Maybe the 4th one will do it for you!
2006-10-19 17:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on telling yourself you don't like her. If someone asks you if you still have feelings for her, no matter how much you want to say yes, say no. Just nice and quiet no. You can think of her all you want. You can talk about all you want. But you can't be her your own slave for so long. It's time to prove yourself that you can and will control your feelings and make the way you feel not only about her but about the whole world.
2006-10-19 18:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If drinking results in these unpleasant memories, try avoiding the action. It is often said that time heals all wounds. I would not go that far. You may have a scar. Each person is unique and show be valued on their individual merits. It is not fair to yourself or the ladies if you continue to compare them to your past lover.
2006-10-19 17:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking up with someone you still have feelings with is a rard thing to get over. Drinking your feelings away isn't going to do much help. you need to mingle and get to meet so new people. You will find love again just take your time.
2006-10-19 18:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking doesnt help. You need to talk to your ex. It has been a yr and its hard to get over someone you really loved.If you did something to end the relationship I hope you learned from your mistake.
2006-10-19 17:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with friends. FInd out what she's doing now and maybe seeing her married or as a looser will make you get over her. Don't look for her to be with her- look for her to see what her life is like now and then you'll see. IF she's single still- stay away or if you really love her- talk about getting aback with ehr and that you still love her.
2006-10-19 17:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm... forget her m8
get someone else.
thats over TWO years ago and you're still crying over it.
get a life and meet some new people.
trust me, if you compare everyone to her you're in for a sad sad life.
funny how it's only when you're drunk you remember her. maybe you should mature a bit and you'll be o.k.
Its not exacle endeering or attractive is it? "oh boo hoo hoo my chick dumped me 2 years ago and i cant get over it"
Have a bit of self-respect. nobodys gonna love you if you dont love yourself
2006-10-19 17:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really all people don't get over the person they break up with, but they all learn to move on, so my best suggestion to you is to move on and let go of the drinking for a while and try something different-something outside your normal ability (something that is good) and go with it, but drinking is not going to make tings easy for you it is just going to worsen it for you
2006-10-19 18:01:42 · answer #11 · answered by Mimi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋