I met this guy on holiday last year and we started going out, but he lives on the other side of the world so I never see him. We've discussed him coming over to visit, but I've found that it is hard to keep up a reltaionship over a distance so we are just staying as friends. I have always wanted to keep in touch with him and to stay as good friends because he is very special to me and I would love him to come and visit me and possibly start up our relationship again. But recently he has stopped emailing me and maybe it is just because he is busy studying but what should I do to let him know that I still like him wihtout seeming too pushy?
2006-10-19 10:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by Bex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send him a cute handmade card to let you know you're thinking about him. old fashioned mail is so much more personal and it often gets overlooked by the technologically advanced world we live in. besides, everyone loves getting something in the mail!
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2006-10-19 10:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by closetoptimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other than emailing him your true feelings i don't think theres anything else you can do. Tell him how your feeling, if he thinks your just friends he has probably got into another relationship or having fun with a girl, if he is believing your just friends then he will do.
If you tell him, do you really think you could have a relationship anyway? i dont mean to be rude, but if you both thought it would be so hard the 1st time, why would it be any easier now? im only saying it as i know i couldnt do it.
Either way, tell him how you feel, so what if you think your pushy, he needs to know and you need to tell him, you';ll feel better.
2006-10-19 17:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would email him and tell him how you feel, It wont hurt, If he responds or he does not at least then you know that you have tried.
I know that it is very hard in having long distance romance or even friendships but it is worth it.
It will take work but it has to come from the both of you thou.
good luck and keep smiling if nothing else at least you have some fantastic memory's of your time together
2006-10-19 18:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would forget him, u cant have a relationship if hes on the other side of the world. i would focus on sumthin else and find some one over here. holiday romances that all it seems
2006-10-19 17:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by angelinyourdreams99_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in the next e-mail you should tell him the truth! But dont send to many e-mails, may look like you are being desperate!
2006-10-19 18:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by ladydanga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋