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2006-10-19 10:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by darkcutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your decision to please your Heavenly Father is in no way a cruel act towards your boyfriend. If he's mature enough he'll understand, and respect your decision.
Congrats for making a smart decision.
2006-10-19 10:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would ask myself am I really “In Love” with him? Because if I were then it would not matter what religious background he comes from.
Is it wrong to leave him for it? 3 years invested… It’s a lot to think about. It depends on the situation of the relationship. If there is conflict and neither of you are seeing eye to eye on things and it’s causing more problems in the relationship where it is not functioning – then no. BUT if there is no conflict and the two of you respect each others beliefs and faith as well as willing to understand the difference of practice then I would wonder if this is love…and what is the real reason why the thoughts of leaving him is being questioned.
The question I ask you is, and this applies to both of you.
How religious are you? Are you active? How would this affect you in the long term? Will there be or could there be conflict? Are you open to learn something new and different? What is important to you? These are questions to ask and more. It will take an in depth soul searching to find the answers and you will.
2006-10-19 18:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chela1331 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you left him because of religion? Yes that would be wrong. Because one day when you realize that there is no god, (and there isn't), you'll feel like a fool because you let go of a good man for an imaginary god.
Religion is a suggestion and a faith, not a way of life. When it interferes in your actual, real life, it's gone too far.
Besides, isn't condemning someone for their religious beliefs prejudicial? Your "god" wouldn't want that, would he?
2006-10-19 17:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell yeah youve been together for three years i guess u already knew his religion when you were like 2weeks together u should have told him that religion's a big deal to you when you knew it from the start. try to talk to him bout it, leaving him cause of religion aint a good reason, if u love him u wont do that
2006-10-19 17:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by noRjay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not bad leaving him for religious reasons
2006-10-19 18:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by t-crisis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason.
2006-10-19 18:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let he/she who is without sin cast the first stone. Who are you to judge?
2006-10-19 18:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by dreaming_again2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not but if u did that your not really in love
2006-10-19 17:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i hate religion, YES thats just ridicolus
2006-10-19 18:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you don't have a REALLY good reason.
2006-10-19 17:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by xxBeastlyBrixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋