i know that a guy fancies me but im bi and i dont think he knows that. when/if he finds out will it put him off?
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2006-10-19 10:44:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im female
2006-10-19 10:45:11 · update #1
It really depends on the guy... some guys will see it as a turn on, some will be irritated by it. I think as long as you don't flaunt your sexuality if he's not comfortable, and don't date another girl if you're dating him, then it should be fine.
Good luck girl... wish you all the best :)
2006-10-19 10:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! How on Earth were you able to write all that? That was Amazing, I really cant believe what you have just written, because i am going through the EXACT same thing, and i mean EXACT!!!! the only difference is that i have had relationships with women. And its also funny because i have the movie "I Love You Man" sitting next to me rite at this second, ready to watch. I too have wondered about getting advice from other people but i havn't had the guts too, I am also soo confused about the situation. So i cant really give you any advice, but i will wish you all the best, and i will be checking to see what answer you get! feel free to ask me anything if you like too! Good Luck Toddler40
2016-05-22 03:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? A LOT of guys dig bi chicks (or the idea of a chick being bi)...it may turn off some guys...others won't care...and some will want to watch you with another chick...
2006-10-19 10:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. It also depends on where you are in the relationship.
If you're early on and NOT commited to each other, then who you date is YOUR business (as who HE dates is his).
It's a turn-on for some guys. Some guys THINK it's a turn-on until reality rears it's ugly head. Some guys think it's abnormal. Some guys think its disgusting.
I know that MY definition of a commited relationship means just her and me. Doesn't matter if it's another guy or girl...it's being unfaithful. But, that's just MY opinion.
You might want to probe the issue with conversation. I wouldn't recommend concealing this until later.
2006-10-19 10:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....this is most "boy's" fantasies. The hopes that you would bring home another girl to fulfill their fantasies of a menage et trois. If he really digs you and vise versa then would he mind if you also bring home another guy instead of another girl for said menage? This will give you a clue as to wether or not he is into you or into his fantasy..."No" you being bi-sexual or bi-curious does not put most "guys" off! But tell them up front.
2006-10-19 10:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by T.T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realisticly maybe and maybe not. Some guys like the idea because they beleive it's a easier way to have a 3some with two females. But if the guy is mature about it then he probably wouldn't mind. Tell him and see what his reaction is.
2006-10-19 10:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by DLB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends: Is he willing to have an open relationship, or are you?
It might if he wants to be exclusive, but then again be ready for the request of a: watching you and your GF go at it, b: you joining w/ his other GF, or c: him joining in with you and your GF.
Go for it. If he's turned off, then "Oh, well."
2006-10-19 10:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by JaMoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my dream to date a bi girl, you know why? because the chances of a threesome are high... I think most guys would be okay dating bi girls...
2006-10-19 10:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by angelus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I love Bi-Women,
Tell Him!
2006-10-19 10:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by JazzMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi am bi to. most guys do like elesbians and bi just don't flirt with other girls around him and ask him "do u like bi"s?" if he asks why, say " i know some one"
2006-10-19 10:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋