He told me he thinks it's gross and it's a "slutty" sex. I told my friends and they were amazed and said that ALL guys like it, except when they're gay. Is something wrong with him?
2006-10-19 10:40:24 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not gay
You guys are just perverted . . .
2006-10-19 10:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I know alot of people have answered this question but I feel that i should still share my opinion. I think he is a slightly religous person, and that he thinks sex should not be meant for pleasure, but for reproducement only. It isn't wrong not to have 'lusts of the flesh,' but true, he is abnormal. Then again, maybe it's like an anti-fetish turn off for him, however, that is unlikely. I do belive he has good morals, even suxually, if that makes any sense at all. Maybe he's just trying to make the wrong seem a little more right. And no, he is most likely not gay. You have a respectable man on your hands.
2006-10-19 10:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by The Popular Vote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay even gay men like oral sex! But I have known 1 or 2 guys that said they didn't care for it for the same reasons you mentioned. Why don't you talk to him more about it?
2006-10-19 10:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by jblonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with him and no he ain't gay either so don't listen to your friends. He just doesn't like it maybe he did have a bad experience or when he did it for the first time he just didn't like it ain't nothing wrong with that. He ain't the only guy out there that doesn't like giving oral sex some guys/girls like giving it and some don't so don't judge him because he won't give it to you.
2006-10-19 10:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is gay. He just respects you because I am a man and I don't prefer oral because I think it is sick but I am not gay. Because it is afterall the thing from which we piss and it is not the cleanest of parts. You sucking that might make him feel like disrespecting you. He is just being nice and you're lucky.
Also think it is not very comfortable because men like to rub there penis and you cannot do it with your mouth. This also maybe the reason.
2006-10-19 10:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, haha, this question kind of made my day. It's not at all weird for a guy to think oral is weird. If he hasn't ever experienced it (or perhaps a bad experience with it?) then he is just expressing his thoughts. It is all preference, nothing more. Like wise for girls, some like oral, some do not right?
2006-10-19 10:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol@ your friends! Shouldn't you be happy you don't have to do that?
Hey, so he doesn't like it, so what? Some people don't like... I don't know... "carrots" does that mean there's something wrong with them?
If it's that important to you to provide oral sex for your significant other then maybe you should find someone else. I have a feeling it is not that important so don't make that big of a deal!
2006-10-19 10:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person is different in his or her own way. No one is alike which is a great thing. Just because he doesn't like it, don't worry, it doesn't mean he's gay, it just means that doesn't interest him. Respect each others decisions and you'll have a great sex life, its a good sign that he's letting you know, communication is the one of the main keys to a good relationship. Take Care=)
2006-10-19 10:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by latina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on his age, his past experiences, the way he was raised, and his religious views.
Not EVERYONE thinks oral is great. There are women who don't like giving or receiving. There are men who don't like giving or receiving.
If everything else in your sexual relationship is good, why hang up on this?
2006-10-19 10:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably tried with a girl with braces and something went wrong.
If I have oral I don't let the girl kiss me because I don't want to taste myself thats sick.
2006-10-19 10:44:05 · answer #11 · answered by HonoraryDiplomat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋