I met my guy friend this summer, I instantly was attracted to him. We both flirted. But then he got girlfriends, it changed. Anyways that isn't important. He's currently single, and he always turns red around me. But he never really adknowledges me anymore, instead he hugs one of his girl friends. We never really talk anymore, after I switched tables, even then I think he liked me. My opinnion that he secretly likes me. But I don't get it why he won't ask me out (he asked all his past girlfriends out with no problem--many of them were less pretty then me). So can someone give some advice on if he likes me and if he does how to get him to ask me out?
2006-10-19 10:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u gotta find out for sure. i have been in that boat, and some of the girls i did like and others i just wanted friendships with. ull never know unless u ask tho... and life is to short for what if's
2006-10-19 10:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drool over this guy. Where's your self-respect?
There are three possibilities: 1. He's not interested. 2. He thinks too highly of himself. 3. Most likely he just doesn't have the "cajones" to pursue you and let you know how he feels about you because he suffers from low self-esteem and fears rejection. These other gals are just safe for him and he's trying to make an impression on you that he's good enough for you. But, if he doesn't have the courage to approach you in a mature and respectful way, you'll have to move on and maybe some day he may or may not grow up.
Now it's alright to encourage him a little so that he may get his courage up and come around, but beyond this, try to stop obsessing over him and find a guy who has a little more confidence and shows some mutual interest. I don't mean to sound harsh, I'm just trying to be real.
2006-10-19 10:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just get him to ask you out. That's backwards anyways. If you like him, maybe you should just ask him if he likes you. If he's shy around you, he's shy around you and probably won't make the first move. And if it turns out that he doesn't like you, well you haven't been talking with him much at all anymore so it's not a huge loss.
2006-10-19 10:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just ask him or write him a note. u should tell him how u really feel about him. if he likes u the same way congrats. if not then ask him if u guys could still be friends. thats wat i would do but thats just me. it works 4 me.
2006-10-19 10:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2006-10-19 10:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For heaven's sake, ask him.
2006-10-19 10:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be rude, but u are sounding kinda shallow
2006-10-19 10:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋