theres a guy in my grade (8th). He;s 15 and we went out for about a month and a half. I loved hm so much and he loved me too. thing was he would flirt with other girls such as my best friend.. he always kissed me and we had lots of fun. then we broke up. he asked me back out and i said yes.then after 3 days we broke up again but he broke up w/ me cause he said he thought he still loved me but he didnt. it broke my heart. what do u think i should do to get over it
2006-10-19 10:15:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going to have a lot of "loves" (they are actually infatuations) over the next few years...get involved with school projects or hobbies or spending time with friends until your emotions are healed and ready to move on...
It's okay for people not to feel toward us as we do them...or for feelings to change...it's just part of being human and getting involved in relationships...
2006-10-19 10:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that he didn't really love you; if he did, he would never have flirted with other girls. He's young and full of hormones, so of course he wants to kiss you... but those same hormones make it difficult for him to tell the difference between lust, like, and love.
Learn what you can from this experience, and promise yourself to not make the same mistakes he did. When you get confused about your passionate, raging feelings, write everything down in a journal. When you read it over later it will make things clearer to you.
good luck!
2006-10-19 10:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This classifies as a "big" problem?? You're 13, you don't know what love really is, you just know what infatutation and lust are. How can you be 13 and love someone after going out with them for a month and a half? A big problem would be being 13 and pregnant, NOT being dumped by someone.
2006-10-19 10:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by mattinctown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may take a while to get over, but that's normal. Just move on. He was a jerk, and you don't need that. You have plenty of time to find real love. I know you may be sick of hearing it, but 13 really is too young to be really involved with someone. It never works out very well, trust me. Just have fun with guys for now. They'll take notice of you, don't worry.
2006-10-19 10:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. vader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man...girl u are 13. u shouldnt even be worried about relationships right now. focus on school and what u wanna be when u grown up and once u achieve that THEN worry about guys. why are u kids in such a rush to grow up? believe me, there is not mush glamour in being an adult.
2006-10-19 10:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very young...don't worry. And why are you with a 15 year old 8th grader. Maybe that should be a big clue! Move on to better guys that will treat you right.
2006-10-19 10:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you are only 13 and that "love" is something that you are still very much unexperienced with. You need to just go out and have fun with your friends, both guys and girls, and enjoy being young. Trust me, life will become complicated enough when you get older, don't rush it.
2006-10-19 10:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by clubhousemgr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are still young. Let time pass by i am sure there wil be another guy soon in ur life. If this guy does'nt love u just ignore him.. that what u do with selfish people.. Chill babe everything will be great after few weeks.
2006-10-19 10:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's really hard for u specially that u are still 13 . the only thing i could tell and be sure of that he does no't diserve u it will be hard to 4gt him but u should try to make yourself busy with some other thing that u like to do and whenever u got him in ur mind tell yourself HE DOES NOT DISERVE ME.
2006-10-19 10:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy, or keep yourself busy. Try not to think about him!
Since you guys got together and broke up so many times, I don't think you're right for each other.
2006-10-19 10:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋