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what can i say to him?

2006-10-19 10:10:06 · 15 answers · asked by jessica_elizabeth_brown 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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yes dad, i agree........

2006-10-19 10:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think the best you can do is to use your intelligence and find the reason of his fondness to assert himself...

I had the same problem, I am 26 and leave my home when I was 23 for work reasons, the time alone made me value the importance of family and believe me, sometimes give up when arguing with your love ones is the best you can do... At the end of the day they are always there for you unconditionally... Finally most of the reasons are not reasons and won't make the difference if you tell them they're right... save the proud for someone else not for your family...

2006-10-19 10:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by elrizo911 2 · 0 0

your dad is probably just really stressed. my relationship with my dad is the same way. i have a really hard time with this because my dad can just be a really stubborn, my way is best, no other way can be better than mine kind of guy and its really irritating sometimes. my sister is really patient and shes really wonderful. she told me to do this: just try to see it from my dads perspective. understand the my dad is really stressed and arguing with him wont make things any better even though you know youre right. close our mouth and dont say anything. just dont open your mouth. nod to show you understand but dont open your mouth.
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2006-10-19 15:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by bubbleluvr24 2 · 0 0

just walk away and don't respond...just nod and leave the room...there must be a reason to why you and dad are fighting....if he's having a go at you for no apparent reason then just walk away...if he's having a go for a good reason then he's entitled to have a moan...but don't wind him up by arguing back...if you are old enough to move out...then look for a place of your own

2006-10-19 10:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dads are always right your not alone can you have a chat with mum about it?you could just clash because you to much alike it all depends on your age i have teenage girls and there dad worries so much and puts it across the wrong way you men dont seem to have the same tact of us mothers

2006-10-19 10:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You cant say anything, i have learnt that the hard way! if he is argumentitive thats it your stuffed, as everything you say will be wrong, trust me! i have argued non stop with my dad for 6 years.
just tell him that if he loves you he will sit down and speak to you and sort things out

2006-10-20 00:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by kirsty m 3 · 0 0

Dads only wants the best for their child, you probably don't look at it this way. believe me when you become a parent one day, believe me you will see what he talking about. try to be more open, listen even if you don't agree with the things he say.....talk to him with respect, you only get one dad!

2006-10-19 10:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0 0

it depends r u wanting to be a smart a** or r u wanting to resolve it? a lot of times the funnest thing to do is..when he's mad... rub it off like u really just do not care at all that he's yelling. blow it off like u r really just NOT caring whatsoever at what he's saying... it makes him more mad and u get so much joy knowing u could make him more mad than he could EVER make u. i've done it many times. it's great when ur pissed. but if ur trying to resolve it... stay away from that... just when he's calm sit down and tell him u just want to talk but u really need his attention and ur not looking for a fight.

2006-10-19 10:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Beyes 1 · 0 0

well it depends on what you are arguing about. i mean like if he says we should buy a boat and you say no lets buy a car. well try to agree with him the best you can and it will help a bunch.

2006-10-19 10:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Double A 3 · 0 0

Remember that daddies love their little girls and to your dad you are still a little girl that he needs to love and protect. choose your battles. If it is not that important do not argue. Tell him you love him.

2006-10-19 10:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0 0

Just sit him down and talk to him, tell him how you feel. Family communication is important for a family to function as a whole and get along.

2006-10-19 10:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by Phil 3 · 0 0

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