ive asked a question similar to this before but the guys that answered wanted me to change myself so here i am again
my name is Jake Day im a sophmore in highschool in lenoir north carolina i want a gf so badly and i dont see what im doing wrong
ive been told by my female friends down here they call me the perfect guy and say i would make a great bf but sadly i just cant get a gf to save my life im sweet, loving, romantic, tall lol i help my friends with there problems ive been a shoulder to cry on 4 my friends many a time but i want to be more then friends ive loved people who are now my best friends and i alwayse get turned down... please how can i change this
2006-10-19 10:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by soultaker150 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to change, you sound like a great guy. You just haven't met the right person. Be patient, don't give up. Good luck!
2006-10-19 10:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change a thing about you. Everyone notices that you are the perfect guy so there's nothing wrong with you. I'm sure that your friends are either not ready or intimidated by your "perfection" and don't want to hurt you. I know I wouldn't have dated a friend that I knew I was capable of hurting. They may even feel that they don't deserve a guy so good. When the right girl comes along, that knows that she deserves a boyfriend like you, You'll pick up on the signs.
2006-10-19 10:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by edcw0214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alas there is no true answer. I'm not trying to disrespect you but there is such a thing as trying to hard. i believe that if you be yourself that "love" will find you at the right time. don't rush you have all the time in the world. that's any other thing your a sophomore in high school, you should be more worried about your school work and evrything pertaining to that first. my daughter was more worried about gettin a bf then anything els at the same point in her high school career adn shes not doing to grate now. so my advice is to be yourself and to be a little nore patient.
2006-10-19 10:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask your female friends what you're doing wrong? Sweet. Loving. Romantic. Tall. Shoulder to cry on. Come on. What girl wouldn't love that? Are you ugly?
2006-10-19 10:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by dianee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are acting a little too desperate. That is not attractive. Just relax, and something will happen when you least expect it. If you are as nice as you say, some girl will see that. Also, maybe you should make a move on a girl that you like. If you don't try, you don't get.
2006-10-19 10:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change anything! The girls that can't see how amazing you are - aren't ready for you. Girls tend to like the bad-boy types but once they've been used-and-abused a couple of times, they see how valuable a good heart is. Keep being you and someone really special will see it!!
2006-10-19 10:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by T C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only in highschool, so don't worry so much about getting into a relationship! You've got your whole life ahead of you to worry about that- don't even think of changing who you are to attract girls! It just may be that none of the girls in your school are right for you. Continue to be yourself and concentrate on graduating.
2006-10-19 10:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself - you'll be miserable if you do. The right girl will come along and it will be a good fit for both of you. Don't give up, and don't settle for the first girl who says yes. You'll probably find the girl for you when you aren't looking! good luck.
2006-10-19 10:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jake i am a femail my name is hannah parr. if you want a gf that bad try getting to know somebody that as you get closer to them start popping the question, Will you go out with me?, or Wanna go see a movie sometime?, ya know something casual will do the trick!!
2006-10-19 10:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by pinkfashiongirlygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its becuz ur sooooo nice ur jus a freind tht looks good, u need to meet someone out of school, bcuz if ur really as nice as u say u are then everyone kno's it in ur school, jus relax and play hard to get and get out more, good luck â¥
2006-10-19 10:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋