What do you do?
2006-10-19 09:56:07 · 13 answers · asked by boobooshurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask them a question and make them talk then your reply will come naturally. That's what I do cause I'm super shy and it works. Ask them about their life. It will make them feel good and give them the opportunity to hit on you. If they talk themself up a little it means they like you too.
2006-10-19 10:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sally, I've been there, done that. What has helped me is to kinda play out in my head what I want to talk about or say once the person and I are together. It won't always play out the way you may have seen it in your head, but at least you won't be as nervous because you'll feel prepared. Take a deep breath, make sure you are at your best, think about what you want to say or do before you act and just simply remain calm in your conversations and actions. Once you're around this person enough, you'll get over the nervousness and you never know, they just might be as nervous about being around you as you are about being around them. Hope this helps, good luck.
2006-10-19 10:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by fabulous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself over and over that if you aren't just being yourself, then you are not being honest.
And if you put on a "pretend" personality, eventually that person will see thru you and you will loose their respect and credibility.
Best to say to yourself " Well, if [so-n-so] can't take me for all of my moods, habits, looks, perspective on life, well, then I guess it's not a match....therefore, it was not meant to be".
Because bottom line, God will bring you that special person with whom you are equally yoked, if you just ASK....
Best to you!
2006-10-19 09:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you're wearing deodrant and put your hands in your pocket if your palms sweat. Ask her questions about her life....people like to talk about their ish. get her talking and you just nod and hmmm and uhhuu along till you get comfortable enough to talk too.
2006-10-19 10:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by tell_me_whos_sleeping_with_who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach, say hello, ask how they're doing, what they're up to, and take it from there...
Think of them as a friend first... No big deal
2006-10-19 09:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was nervous becuase I thought sh emight bit me
2006-10-19 09:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i'm around someone i like i someone times blush or say someone stupid. :l
2006-10-19 10:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
immediately i remember his/her nice things with me and how much crazy and stupid i will be if i allow myself to loose all these nice things in few seconds .
2006-10-19 10:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by MIKE IVANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make big beutifful eyes then be your self it usually works;)
2006-10-19 10:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by cutey#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a breath and be yourself...
2006-10-19 09:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋