Okay, there is this boy that goes out with my best friend. He FLIRTS with me ALOT. and he is like giving me his stuff and everything. he is also my ex boyfriend. I kinda like him still and everyone is telling me we should go out agian. what to do??? I think he may break up with her soon but he stares at me and smiles and stuff.. im in high school as well,,, so answer within reason Please!
2006-10-19 09:54:38 · 18 answers · asked by ktaylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is exactly why you should NEVER date your friend's ex. Carry this rule into your adulthood. My ex(first true love) & I broke up and didn't speak to each other for 5 years. During this time, a friend of his that knew I was his ex, but also knew that I had no idea they were friends, began to persue me. This friend & I started dating and I didn't find out that they were friends until we were living together and I was pregnant. We eventually got married, now we're seperated, but now there's a conflict. I now have to be around my ex on a regular basis because of my husband and it's very difficult for us because we have realized that we're still very much in love. Talk about a sticky situation. What it all boils down to is this. He was yours first and she never should have crossed that line and dated him. She can't get mad at you for doing the same thing she did to you.
2006-10-19 10:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's more important in your life...this guy who you've already broken up with and is seeing someone else, or your "best friend"?? ill tell you one thing for sure, especially in high school...its best NOT to let a guy come inbetween friendships. chances are hes gona break up with her, try to get with you, if you say yes your friend is going to get all upset, your friendship MAY last but it will be different and then chances are , again because its high school drama, he'll probably end up leaving you and then going with someone else and you and your friend are not going to be the same becuase of all of that crap. big WAH! but umm..yeh...id stay away from that situation unless you really want some entertainment for next how ever long it lasts??
2006-10-19 17:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by *wonderful lady* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he is your ex, if he's dating your best friend, then HANDS OFF!!! Just cause everyone says you two should date and he's flirting with you, doesn't mean you should. you should be the mature one and think hey, how much would this hurt your friendship with your best friend if he dumps her then you two get together. If he's flirting with you, you need to tell him to stop because he's with your friend. It's the only right thing to do.
2006-10-19 16:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by silly_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really great guy (not really). He is going out with your friend and flirting with you. What makes you think he would not do the same thing to you? Think about what his actions are telling you about his character.
2006-10-19 16:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH, i'd say, don't ditch your best friend, that would be terrible. i've done that too many times and it wasnt worth it at all. plus you've already dated this guy! go find someone else.
dont you think, considering what he's pulling with your best girl that he'll probably end up doing the same exact crap to you?! Screw him, get a new guy and keep the best friend.
2006-10-19 17:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's high school and you know you want to go out with him again. So just tell your best friend what he is doing and that you still like him and if she was such a good friend she would back off and let him ruin your life again. Good Luck!
2006-10-19 16:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if ur freind is the jealous type then maybe u should figure out which is more important ur friend or her soon to be ex, if they break up then u will have the oppurtunity to be able to go out with him its mostly about if u still have feelings and if ur freind is more important~Good Luck~[â¥]
2006-10-19 16:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is happening to me to. this is why you should really try to avoid going out with your friends ex's. In the long run it's best to just leave him alone
2006-10-19 17:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by prissymiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him and that you want to get back together, but wait for him to dump her, don't get in the middle and don't mention anything to her, otherwise whe will suspect that he broke up with her for you, and you might lose your best friend. go about it carefully and watch what you say, don't let it come back and bite you in the a**
2006-10-19 16:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~sexybiatch~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi. i feel you! there's this boy named nick keene, and i like him alot, but my best friend alwayz flirts w/ him, even though she never admits it. nick is alwayz talking and playing, and smiling at me, but won't ever ask me out. : (
u know what?? i'm going to talk to him about this, maybe u should do the same
2006-10-19 16:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by maya b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋