I dost found out from my friend my boy is gay whate should I do to dump him as in how? its scary we have been going for 2 years!
2006-10-19 09:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have been going out for two years then I would think you would have enough respect to talk to him about this rather than dumping him out of the blue based on something your friend has told you. I think you need to have a serious discussion about this with him and if it turns out he is homosexual I think the break-up will occur as a natural consequence of the discussion.
2006-10-19 09:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Redshift Agenda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously stressed and then spelling. Anyways Young Lady, if he been going out with you and he is also gay, that means only one think, that he is Bisexual.
How would you go about it?
Could you cool yourselfe, do it? If you can t thenthink about weather you can change your values, and get on with it, or if in deed not, then cut it out immediately.
It will give you pain. Watever works for you, make sure you try on or two ways to deal with it. and by the way confrontation does not work, in those cases.
2006-10-19 16:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of person you are.
If you don't care much about it, you can stay with him as long as you or he like.
If you're a serious person, go dump him if it's true. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who put his love on some other man.
2006-10-19 17:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Traveler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush; get the facts/proof 1st. Do you believe your friend? Do you have reason to believe he is gay? Dont just believe everything you hear. Check your facts then confront him in a sensitive way.
2006-10-19 17:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure your friend is trustworthy? Not trying to break you up for other reasons? If not, then confront your BF in a nice way and ask if it is true. If it is, then you know to move on.
2006-10-19 17:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely dump him! Have you guys had sex? IF so that is soo wrong of him and he needs to be kicked. I don't understand why men who know they are gay continue to be in heterosexual relationships. Good luck!
2006-10-19 16:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang...this is a hard one...if i were you, i would ask him about it first...it may have just been a rumor. But if it is true... i would go ahead and dump him. GOOD LUCK! boy do u need it.lol
2006-10-19 16:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by ktaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "You're Gay, You're Gay, So Go Away, I'm not going to Stay!!!"
Tell him that you're sorry that he decided to pervert himself, but you're not going to open yourself up to all sorts of STDs and AIDS.
2006-10-19 17:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u have un protected sex with him,,,, recall if no go for a check up..... dump him,,,, no just burst him off,,,why?? cause he made use of you even though he knew he's a gay
2006-10-19 16:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to ask him is he gay . and you need to go get your self checked out with a doctor to see if you have any diseases.
2006-10-19 17:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋