2006-10-19 09:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like my problem...reversed
i guess "if love is meant to be, it will find a way"
2006-10-19 09:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by *Cole* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this situation well. You "messed up" during the relationship and she put up with it. Now, she decided she can't take it anymore so she says doesn't want you back, and now you want her back, only becuase you think you "messed up". Bro, you didn't "mess up", you did what your natural male instincts told you to do. If you're natural instincts drive you away from her, or her away from you, then I guess you are just too much of a man for her to handle. Any guy that tries to "change" themselves into what a girl wants, ironically does the exact opposite. Be a man and be yourself. Don't feel bad about what you did, but if another chick comes along (or she decides to come back), learn from your mistakes. The best thintg to do, although it sounds hard at first, is to not talk to her for two months, no matter what, even if she calls, then call her after 2 months and it will be like starting all over again, TRUST ME!!
2006-10-19 10:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by sdnneal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say you love her and you have messed up numerous time. but if you did love her you wouldn't have messed up again. you need to work on your self first to see why you keep on doing the samething over and over again. fix your self first before you can love someone else. one mess up it too many.
2006-10-19 09:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have messed up numerous times, i seriously doubt she will once again give you another opportunity. Best you find someone else, and learn from your mistakes.
2006-10-19 09:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her, you should have thought about the consequences. It depends on what type of person she is, and if she will let herself forgive you. If you get her back, don't mess up this time!
2006-10-19 09:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that. But if you promise to change you should really mean it, and really have a plan on how to correct the "messing up".
2006-10-19 09:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how u messed up and how bad u hurt her. but i say go 4 it!lifes to short for that kinda poo
2006-10-19 09:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you messed up in a big way, the makeup in an even bigger way.
2006-10-19 09:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by ...[♥♠]... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how you messed up?? If you cheated you dont love her so get over it!!
2006-10-19 09:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LOOK AT IT FROM HER POINT AND REALLY LOOK AT WHAT IT WAS THAT MADE YOU STRAY FROM THE PERSON YOU REALLY SAID YOU CARED ABOUT. BECAUSE SHE IS FEELING BETRAYED AND I KNOW I WOULDN'T TRUST MY HEART WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS BETRAYED ME. ONCE YOU SEE IT FROM HER POINT A SHOW REMORSE SHE MIGHT TURN THE OTHER CHEECK
2006-10-19 09:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by SWEET WCC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋