why dont u guys like fat girls?

Question

i wanna know we are just the same as any other girl i am fat and i wanna know if i were older and i was still fat would u date me cause i can cook and i can clean and i can sing i can be cute and funny and i love to just stay at home sometimes

Answer 1

Some guys don't care whether a girl is fat or not. It all depends on what a guy prefers. The best thing for you to do is to stop thinking of yourself as fat. Think of yourself as lady above anything else. Next you need to walk with your head held up high and know that you have it going on no matter how big you are. Confidence in yourself gets you a long way. Men are attracted to that. You seem to have everything else in place such as cleaning and cooking so you would make a good woman for someone. Don't worry yourself with this, the right man will come your way and be very interested in you, not your weight.

Answer 2

My reason that I don't date fat women is that I view fat women as unhealthy and lazy. I am a pretty active person, and I would like to date someone that is also active and athletic. Someone that has limitations put on them by their weight isn't a turn-on at all. Next, is that quite a few fat women have self esteem problems because of their weight. Not that people with "normal" weight don't have problems as well, you get the picture. If I am on a date, one of the first questions I ask to myself when I see her is, "would I want to kiss this woman?" and my answer for most overweight women is no. There is a difference between someone who is fat and doing something about it and someone who doesn't give a s***.

Answer 3

Im a girl, but I will put myself in a mans shoes. I would say, honestly, looking at someones fat isnt going to turn me on, its not very attractive. however, I would probably be able to get over the weight factor, considering all the other qualities you posess (- the cooking and cleaning, who cares about that junk). I have dated a few guys who were overweight because they were awesome individuals. There are plenty of guys out there who like a girl with curves. Goodluck.

Answer 4

Men that like skinny barbies are insecure because they couldn't stand what their friends (or conscience) would say if they went around with a heavy girl. It's all about status, no matter how old you are.

There's also a theory which suggests that genetically men are attracted to thin, healthy women because they could give birth to more babies. Fat is sometimes seen as lazy or unhealthy and therefore not able to have as many.

Answer 5

First off: blanket statements telling guys that they dont like fat girls is not giving the fellas a fair chance.
you say "if i were older"- that says to me that youre young and wayy to young to be worried about dating and such.
when the right time comes, youll find a guy that likes YOU.. not neccasarily fat girls, or cute girls, or girls that like to clean..
he'll like YOU.
for you.
and dont get caught up in the "fat" thing... its unfair to yourself, and can lead to being another person.. doing things to "make up for the fat that youre fat".
which im not even sure that you really are, as i dont really know what you look like.
i am a confident, pretty fat woman that has never had a hard time finding dates becuase of my size...
if theyre not attracted to you, then thats that... but dont allow yourself to blame it on your weight-youll find the guy when the time is right.
and - relax... it doesnt really matter anyway.
fat is fat and skinny is skinny and there are alot of in betweens...
but weight is just one facet of a persons looks.

Answer 6

I don't really know. I am a little chubby myself, yet I can still run and exercise, but I can also go to a fast food restaurant. Even thoe I am a bigger female. I still get hit on at school, but the so called "popular" guys don't because I'm not a Barbie. It doesn't make sence to me eathier. I have had a boyfriend who was extremely overweight but that didn't stop me from dating him, and I'm a little fat and that didn't stop him from dating me. So I don't really know.

Answer 7

First off, you called yourself fat - which is a putdown. Guys like a girl with confidence.

Even when I was heavier, I NEVER called myself fat. I was, at one time, a size 32 and I never had problems getting dates. Because I carried myself well. Now I am a size 16, (but I still have a booty!) and my confidence has never faltered.

Believe in yourself and people will gravity to you.

Answer 8

some of us enjoy doing thing that require you to be physically fit, i don't like spending my time eating lying on couch all the time, lots of heavy girls i know, won't go swimming, snorkeling, biking, skydiving, repeling, etc. cause they can't. or whine and bit ch about it the whole time. there no matter how cute or what a great personality you have will you want to do outdoor stuff ?

Answer 9

Hell, I dont have a problem with overweight girls and I am pretty atractive my self lol, I mean as long as the girl is a good person that I can get along with its ok.

Answer 10

that's no longer that adult males do in comparison to fat women, that's that your habit is repulsive. "furnish them intercourse rightoff the bat in the event that they're warm sufficient." Wow u sound like a sleeze and that may no longer a thank you to get somebody.