so if you go out with someone a few times and its a lot of fun, then on the 3rd or fourth date the person seems kind of distant or something, would you give them another chance? what if they seemed quiet and boring (but still friendly) whereas before they were more fun and talkitive?
would you just assume they were just having an off day, or would you come to the conclusion that either they weren't that into you or they were'n that fun?
2006-10-19 09:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would assume they weren't having a good day. My uncle had a 'horror' story from his third date with my aunt - he spilled ice cold Coke all over her at dinner, then accidentally hit her in the face while trying to open a door for her. Now, he may not have been distant, but it was still definitely a bad date. (They've been married for about... 27 years now) I would give this guy another chance.
2006-10-19 09:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They could just be having an off day. You can't conclude anything on a one time thing. You need more information to make an accurate decision. Think of it as a board going in one direction. If you put one nail in it. It will spin in any direction. Put two and it goes in one direction. More then two and it's not going anywhere else.
2006-10-19 16:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a little more time. He might just be having a bad day. If it continues then he was probably just putting on an impression for you on the first dates.
2006-10-19 16:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sucks is zellparis's BALD HEAD!!
I think I would assume your date was having an off day, maybe call them and chat it over, & see if another date is in the forecast!
2006-10-19 16:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has an off day. Could be you just caught your date on one. I'd give a second chance. If that also sucks, move on.
2006-10-19 16:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've have mutiple dates and one of them was bad? I'd assume it was an off day. I'd go out again - and if they were still withdrawn, etc., I'd simply ask about it. Find out what's going on with them, so you can make the right decision about seeing them again.
2006-10-19 16:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id give it another try and see what happens. Everyone has off days.
2006-10-19 16:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he keeps calling me and asking me out, I would not think much of his third-date mood.
2006-10-19 16:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call anymore find someone new ...but if the new date ends the same way .......the problem is you
2006-10-19 16:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweetie.
2006-10-19 16:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Nessy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋