The bloke I fancy is currently logged on messenger and although we have been chatting on and off for a while now, I want to chat to him again, but i'm scared incase he thinks i'm a stalker.
What should I do?
2006-10-19 09:44:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just chat to him, i,m sure if there was a problem he would not have chatted to you a second time. You,ve got nothing to lose. Go for it.
2006-10-19 09:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by collnto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the particulars... but if you've been acting normal..as in not like a stalker... then I wouldn't worry about it.. just say "Hi There"
If you've been a little zealous about things.. I'd back away from the keyboard as it could look a little stalkerish
2006-10-19 09:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bugging you coz otherwise you wouldn't ask the question, so you have to talk to him - see how it goes. If your layed back and yourself and it doesn't work then que sera, if he doesn't like you for who you are then who cares, nothings lost, wasn't meant to be and your out of the misery!
If your layed back and yourself and it works then bonus, got yourself chatting to a guy ya fancy and maybe in with a chance. Bonus.
Good luck
2006-10-19 09:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. This may sound sexist, but (in general) I can't tell you how much I would (maybe) like to be stalked by a girl.
As for reason you're scared, it's normal for when you like someone. That's the best I can do.
With all due respect, ...
2006-10-19 09:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't constantly trying to talk to him daily and trying to constantly get his attention then he should think nothing of it. Have you tried just waiting for him to message you first? Hint if you are the one who is always messaging him before he messages you OR if you are always messaging him and he never makes an attempt to message you you should probably wait and let him msg you first. This way you will know if hes even interested OR if hes just talking to you to be nice and doesnt want to hurt your feelings by ignoring your msgs. IF he messages you first or emails you will know it's ok.
2006-10-19 09:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by herbie36f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just text something random to him, when he replies pretend you clicked the wrong name. When he asks how you are etc.. you'll get chatting x
2006-10-19 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by I-Love-My-Boys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he starts most of your conversations, there's no harm in saying hello every once in a while. Just don't do it all the time.
2006-10-19 09:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah! you aren't a stalker!! go ahead an chat there is nothing wrong with that...don't be scared ,,,good luck
2006-10-19 09:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, go ahead and talk to him. He'll let you know if you're chatting too much.
2006-10-19 09:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi, and then if he says y r u tlking to me, say oops..i was trying to tlk to someone else, but i accidentally clicked on u, i guess we could tlk though...if u aren't busy..cause my friend just logged off
2006-10-19 09:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Girl♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋