Well, I just got a gf today. The problem is that I like to take thing slow.....
We hold hands already (which is awkward), and she's IM'ing me saying "hey babe", but im school she;s miss. Innocent. Is this normal? Something just doesn't feel right here,,,,,I haven't had a girlfriend in awhile.
I like her but I'm just starting to get suspicious or maybe I'm just not ready for a gf yet (i'm 13). and then she asked me to the dance, and embarrasingly, I don't know how to dance!! Pretty sad HUH?
Well anyway, someone told me I was about her 24th bf. That made me feel a bit suspicious too. So she came to me and asked me out. I was very unsure becasue I don't really know if I can be a good bf becuz I don't think I'm ready!! Well then she looks SAD like she is about to cry. then I get guilty....
a part of me likes her, a part of me has a bad feeling, I don't know what to think. I have mixed emotions here...BIG TIME! Maybe shes just really romantic??
Any suggestions welcomeThanxall
2006-10-19 09:39:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said she can't find love and that every single one broke up w/ her. I told her she's a little too young for that. She told me she had a dream about me giving her a diamond at a dance. I sure hope she doesn't think that's what she's getting. ****!
2006-10-20 03:22:12 · update #1
If you're not sure, get out. When you find the right girl you'll know. She sounds troubled, and I think you should steer clear. I think you show a great deal of maturity in admitting you're not ready for a gf yet. You're a smart guy.
2006-10-19 09:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by susie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are only 13 and alot of kids your age don't know how to dance. but if you are not feeling this girl, then don't go out with her. why do something you really don't want to do? and going out with some one because you feel guilty is not a good reason.and by the way you need to learn now don't listen to gossip! that can ruin any ones life at any age.you should have asked the person who told you she has had 24 bf. if they were writing a book and that's how they new that information. again, don't listen to gossip!!
2006-10-19 09:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. . . maybe she's one of those girls that live in the movies. that love to have a bf. I'm not one but girls around my school are. My ex ex bf called me babe and hottie and i felt the same way. don't worry its normal its only your first day. Maybe she just really likes you i take things slow too. and well my bf and me don't even hang out and its been like a week since we started i rather have your realtionship right now. lOl. well hope you find what half you are going with. . . if that made sense
2006-10-19 09:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by ..<3.. Green_pixie ..<3.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun if you feel that uncomfortable you shouldn't have a girlfriend. She may just be a very affectionate person there is def nothing wrong with that (but there are limits when u are 13) but who cares about her past if you like her it doesnt matter. But if you really wanted to break up with her you should you arent doing her any favors by staying with her and lying cuz if you dont like her you are lying. Just be honest she will respect you for that and if she doesnt Oh well its your life. Live it for you!!
2006-10-19 09:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the chick for you right now. Maybe she will be in about five or ten years. She seems to be out of your league. If she's the same age as you are and you're her 24th boyfriend you may want to leave her alone because she has a title, FREAK!!!!!
2006-10-19 09:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, you need to be worried about other things than a gf, you have plenty of time for that stuff later.
2006-10-19 09:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of dating, sweetie. You are very cute. Do what you have to in your own time. Things will work themselves out. And you are young and have many years ahead...if you feel you have to go slow, do it. Don't be pressured! She may be coming on strong because she thinks that's what guys like, or she may be nervous. Good luck.
2006-10-19 09:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not quite ready for the type of relationship she has in mind. I am not saying that she is over the edge but if you are uncomforable the you need to not be doing it.
2006-10-19 09:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay
I Dont think you like her, I thinkl its your hormons your just attracted your 13 you still have many years to come for gf's if your not ready tell
her and about the dance problem just move around clap ..do whatever
and just tell her that you dont like to dance , or tell her the truth
2006-10-19 09:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by RaGy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. your way too young to have a gf. wait until your in high school. you'll have a better understand of having a gf.
2006-10-19 09:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋