how do i tell the girl i love i cant see her anymore?

Question

i have a friend who knows i am very into her. we are pretty close. i asked her out back in january and she said no. since then we have grown very close. is it a lost cause and should i ask again? also its really hard fore me to be her friend if i know nothing will happen. shes seriously all i think about. how do i tell her we cant hang out anymore

Answer 1

i would say i like you. do you like me. if not its just to hard for me to hang out with you as friends because i have feelings for you!

Answer 2

Just be open and honest about your feelings. I'm currently on the opposite side of this situation. My friend and I have known each other for years and have recently gotten much closer as friends. He feels like I'm the person that he has been looking for all of his life. He swears that I'm his soul mate, but I can clearly see that he's not. He's not my type at all as a mate, but makes a great friend. We have openly discussed the feelings that we have toward one another and how these feelings differ. We are still friends. If we had to end friendship because I don't want to get romantically involved with him, I would feel as though he wasn't a true friend in the first place. True friends don't turn their backs on you no matter what.

Answer 3

Tell her how you feel - well, you say she already knows that you're into her, but explain that it's not doing you any good seeing her so much - that you need to give yourself a chance to meet someone else.

Also, I don't know if this will be the case with your friend, but be careful if she starts to get clingy if you move away a bit - I think that can happen because they're scared of losing your friendship and get confused, and without meaning to hurt you they might try to be something more when in their heart of hearts they know there's nothing serious in it.

Answer 4

Well, you gotta tell her the truth about how you feel about her. Maybe she is just waiting to see how long you are willing to wait for her when she is ready to date you again. You should just tell her you dont wanna hang around her because you are getting even more attached to her, and you want to be with her even more. It might just make it to where she might change her mind about dating you and she might start dating you. You can also give her an ultamatum to say she dates you, or you wont hang out with her anymore.

Answer 5

What do you mean you can't hang out anymore? Do you not enjoy her company?

Why is it a lost cause? She only sees you as a friend? or a spare wheel? (insurance?)

It'll definitely not be good to force things or give ultimatum. You will seriously jeopardize what you have, which is her friendship.

I'd say continue to be her friend, and move on if you meet someone. You'd still have a good friend.

Answer 6

try and find out why she said no,she might have a tangible reason and if she does not then ask her out again and if she still refuses then u must take a cue and back off and if it will hurt u that much then maintain a distance in your relationship.but first try to win her over.remember a relationship needs a lot of trust and coperation between the two parties.

Answer 7

Just be honest with her. Tell her that it's too hard watching her with other guys when you both know your feelings for her and if she doesn't want to take your relationship any further then you can't continue to have a relationship together.

Answer 8

The truth shall set you free

Answer 9

Tell her you want to be more than just casual friends. If she says no, move on and see other people.

Answer 10

call her n tell her that "LOVE U ARE THE ONLY ONE I THINK OF ALL DAY AND NIGHT, EVERY SINGLE SECOND,MINUTES,HOUR,!!!!!! but the truth is we cant hang out together cause there's only one rope for hanging!!!!!