Who has the best solution for getting over an ex-girlfriend?

Answer 1

It takes time...spend time with friends, take up a hobby, get more involved at work...do things to distract your mind so your heart can heal...

Answer 2

Start to realize everyone has gone through a break-up, most people go through many. Why? A good or great relationship requires an excellent fit. Same intelligence level, understanding each other's sense of humor, physical attraction, same goals, and being at the right point in your natural growth to be fully prepared for the weight of a good relationship. The problem wasn't just you, but her too. I look at each relationship that I have as training. Training for the big one. Hopefully, with this past relationship you learned a few things about yourself, about women and about how you relate to them. Not all women are the same, we are an incredibly complex, moody and searching sex. Women in their 20's are trying to find out who they are, which is a good thing, when they get to be in their 30's and 40's they're the most happy, they have resolved or found much of who they are and start to get serious about finding someone to share they're life with. You didn't state your age, but know this, women get cooler as they get older.

Look at this as the greatest opportunity. I'll bet that every relationship you have had was better than the one before. Look forward to the fact that your next relationship will be better than the one you just had. Why? You learned what you need and want.

Another thing. Save face. Every time a guy has broken up with me-instead of crying and asking why? why?- I just say, okay, it just wasn't meant to be, good luck, I wish you lots of happiness. It helps me feel less humilated later on, and every single time I did that, the guy came back saying he made a mistake! What a great feeling it was to say "No thank you!"

Take the time to feed yourself during this relationship lull. Read more, listen to music, hike, get more interesting! Women can't resist an interesting guy. Men with limited interests are extremely boring.

In the end, it takes time, the support of good, intelligent friends.

Answer 3

There is no one else's "best solution" for *you*. Your own solution is just that. It's different for everyone. For some it's a booty call, a rebound, or years of celibacy in a monastery. (OK, I was extreme on that last one.) The universal salve seems to be time, distance, and not lapsing into something serious with someone else right away. My 'bullshit sense' is tingling, though, and I have a feeling you're asking this question for validation to go out and be a rampant manwhore. You don't need anyone's approval to do that. Go out, do it, just be honest and safe. Have fun kiddo.

Answer 4

Well if its hard because you see her alot dont go where she gos maby take a vacation some where(visit fam in a nother state for a couple weks an dont talk to her till your secure again

Answer 5

JUST SAY TO YOURSELF, SHE'S NOT WORTH IT! IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, GET A HOBBY OR SOMETHING 2 OCCUPY YOUR TIME THAT YOU USED TO SPEND DATING. I did that when my boyfriend of 3 and a half years dumped me and I've been great ever since! ( Don't you think that's pretty good considering I'm only 10!!!!)

Answer 6

that takes alot of time you cant get over an ex real fast

Answer 7

If you trully loved the person then i dont think you ever do, if they were YOUR soulmate you wont! If however your love wasnt true, just infatuation then you will get over her in time!

Answer 8

Nail 2 or 3 other girls and she will be forgotten.

Answer 9

Just like getting rid of an old car...That NEW girlfriend smell will be intoxicating...

Answer 10

go to a strip club