me and my bf broke up yesterday. we've been dating on and off for the last year. and i want him really bad. i cant live without him. so what should i say or do to win him back?
2006-10-19 09:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you're obviously living without him if you're bothering to ask this question. If you've been off and on for a year, I wouldn't bother. Leave it off and remind yourself constantly why you've broken up in the past. What is it that draws you back to him? Are you scared of being alone? Of being rejected? Whatever it is, take it and use it as a learning experience. Everyone has breakups. You sound pretty young, so you've got lots of "learning experiences" ahead of you. Find a friend, cry a little, and then jump back into the dating pool. You'll find someone better.
2006-10-19 09:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Evelyn's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you will not listen to this advice, you won't listen to anything you really have to learn the hard way. But, the most sure fire way to get a boy back is to ignore him. When he knows that you are okay without him it will make him respect you and want you even more. Hopefully by that time you will be over him and on to someone new who will treat you better.
I hope this helps, but remember to love yourself first and then love others.
2006-10-19 09:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Arte Salon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious advice so listen carefully.If you want to keep your best friend then stay as far away from her ex as you possibly can.She will never forgive or trust you again.There will always be a nagging thought in the back of her mind that you might have been after him the whole time she was with him.It will break her heart and yours to lose her,and it WILL happen.
2016-05-22 02:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Margaret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying that you cant live with out someone is drastic. learn to love yourself that much and people (including your ex) will be drawn to that. i dont mean to sound rude but you sound too needy and clingy. try being positive, elusive, maybe a little more relaxed. it can be hard in young love thinking that love is forever. when i think back to how many guys i dated that i thought i couldnt live without, i must have had more lives than a litter of kittens. be at peace with yourself, people are more drawn to others who are comfortable with themselves and display confidence.
2006-10-19 09:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by kess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up to his house/work wearing nothing but a trenchcoat....
2006-10-19 09:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do u want to go back out with him? find somebody better
2006-10-19 09:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him back and you can't live w/o him
2006-10-19 09:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trick him into knocking you up.
2006-10-19 09:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your sorry and ask him to come back then promise him you wont leave him again.
2006-10-19 09:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋