....like looked in a window at them or followed them somewhere or listened to thier voice mail or read thier e-mail?
What exactly did you do and why?
(i think there is something fascinating and funny about this bad but very common behaviour.)
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2006-10-19 09:04:42 · 15 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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MIMI YOU ARE TOO FUNNY!
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2006-10-19 09:10:05 · update #1
Yes, only because I trust no one, bad experiences made me this way. Now my present boyfriend is paying for all the bad every other guy did to me. So far I haven't found anything discriminating against him so I quit snooping around (for now).
2006-10-19 09:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know zig, I probably wouldn't, if only for the simple fact that this can never lead to anything beneficial. Say you find a suspicious email or something. Are you actually going to call them on it, if doing so means that you have to admit to spying on them? So instead, you will have to just stew about it and wonder. This might be a time when the "ignorance is bliss" concept should be applied, hehe.
2006-10-19 09:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by yumyum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never done something like that before.
I did over hear a conversation on the city bus between a guy and his lady lover. She was still married and he was trying to convince her to leave her husband, but she wouldn't. Makes you wonder weather or not you should. I have faith in my b/f though and I don't worry about silly things like that.
2006-10-19 09:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a teenager I once looked for phone numbers and checked a voicemail. I did it because I didn't trust them. The bad part about looking for something you usually find it..lol or leave room for you to be VERY embarassed!!!
2006-10-19 09:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If you don't have trust and respect of another person's privacy in a relationship then the odds of it actually working out is not good. You can't have all the details all the time, you can't always be in control.
2006-10-19 09:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in a current relationship, but I have read blogs and driven past ex's houses (not that I went out of the way, the one was on the way to my job and I saw her nailing the guy she cheated on me with in the back of his car).
2006-10-19 09:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew Jesse Brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shhhh Icheck his email. Always worried he might like someone else. Pretty sad behaviour after 8 years
2006-10-19 09:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....I had a very strong feeling...oh and was I right. I think you have to go with your instinct. Just be prepared for what you may find out. I also think that if it comes to you having to check its pretty much over anyway. I did confront her and wow what a story!!!
2006-10-19 09:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
He thought he was getting away from me.
I took down the number of the car.
Had a friend call it in
Found out she was married and asked him
if her husband knows whats going on?
2006-10-19 09:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I felt the desire to do that, we shouldn't be together...there would either be a lack of trust, or an inappropriate invasion of privacy...
2006-10-19 09:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋