Are there any real men out there?

Question

And what do you define a real man... Or what makes you a real man?

Do you treat a lady like a lady should be treated?

I dont think you men get it.

Open doors, pick up after yourself, put the lady first, Treat her with respected always suprise her, Love her with every inch of you.

Answer 1

No they are all mariied and lost it

Answer 2

Well, besides the obvious physical attributes, a real man is somewhat stoic. He has to go with the flow of life as long as the flow is headed somewhere near where he wants to go.
He has to treat women as equals. No better, no worse.
A real man has an open mind. If the argument is sound, he needs to at least contemplate the idea that he may be wrong.
Treat a lady like a lady. Just what might that be? Should he lay his coat across a puddle? Open doors for her? Pick up the tab on every date? That is the way I was raised. Seems somewhat old fashioned by today's standards. Would a real man want a woman that expected this treatment. Maybe a real man is looking for a life partner. A woman that would share all the ups and downs of everyday living. A woman that does not want to be insulated. A woman that is confident that, she too, might have the answers.
A real man is a good provider but willing to accept the contributions of his partner. He will not feel inadequate or less of a man for recieving help from his mate.
Most of all a real man does not feel the need to intrude on the privacy of his mate. We all need our space.
And finally, a real man does not express his anger in a physical manner. Hitting anyone, or thing for that matter, is the way of children.

Answer 3

I'd give this an answer a definate yes. However, it depends on "HOW" you think a lady should be treat.

Most men I know take women out for a meal, (The whole wine and dine analogy) and are always being dumped, as they're coming across as too needy and trying to "buy" love. These are the kind of things I try to avoid when I'm dating. I met my fiance in the gym, and our first date was in a shopping mall, and the second a days hiking (the first date was actually buying gear to go hiking ;) )

But to put in a shorthand list of the things I'd consider a 'real' man I'd have to go with.

:Confident
:Humorous
:Honest, and have integrity
:Considerate

I'd consider these as the main attributes... but in a long term relationship I'd have to add...

:Loving
:Caring
:Compassionate
:Romantic (Is there such a thing these days?)

Last question "Do you treat a lady like a lady should be treat?"

Yes, I treat women very well. I have been in several relationships where I've been told "Im the best thing thats happened to them" (These haven't worked though, because those women were too clingy and needy. I prefer a woman who's as strong and confident as I am)

Answer 4

The guys answered it as I suspected-well,some of them did.I think ANY man in the right place and at the right time,would cheat.Whoever decides to disagree,don't come babbling to me,cause I won't care,and I'll still have the same opinion.

Anyways,men are just like that.They can't really fully respect us.You should've seen some of the winners my mom dated after divorce.OH,LORD! These dudes were idiots with terrible attitudes.They took advantage of her.

The first guy she dated took advantage of her,cause she would've done anything for him.She loved with everything she had.The second guy,too.And the thrird pushed her around.

^^ Sounds great,doesn't it? I'm not holding grudges,but when the woman gives it all she's got,why can't you men?

Good luck with finding a man that can actually treat women right.

Answer 5

A real man, well I think for many guys that can mean multiple things. For me, a real man man has his life together. Works hard and plays hard. Treats everyone with respect and kindness, especially his lady.
I have a lot of friends (female) who say that chivalry is dead. I do not think it is dead, just not appreciated. I have had more women give me strange looks for being chivalrous than enjoying it. Almost everytime I open their car door I get a strange look! One of my girlfriends I once carried over a big puddle because I didn't want her to get wet in her dress shoes. She told me that was unnecessary. I did it because I cared - although that's why she is an ex eh?
I think there are plenty of guys who treat girls right, just gotta keep on diggin'. Life's a garden - dig it!

Answer 6

Oh boy. This question seems to always be asked by people who let things happen to them instead of making things happen. You're attracting the wrong men with your demeanor and actions.

To answer your question more directly: I treat ladies exactly how they should be treated. Now, how these women should be treated depends entirely on how the woman treats herself. If you respect yourself, you will attract assertive men who can appreciate you. If not, you'll forever attract men who can see your weaknesses and are all too happy to take advantage of them.

Answer 7

Yea, I have no trouble treating a lady like a lady should be treated. The problem is that just because your a female doesn't make you a lady.

Answer 8

Yes there are real men out here. Me for instance am a king. The king of my castle. BUT, it wouldn't be worth a damn without my queen. So thats how I treat her. 24/7

Answer 9

a couple of years ago i thought i met a real man. to be honest, i still dnt no wot a real man is, r shud b??its bafflin!!anyway dis guy turned out to b ur wrst nitemare, and was pretty hard to break away from, but after a wile i met anuder ;real man;, and hes good to me, treats me like a lady, and makes me laugh. i tink dat must count for sumting, but whos a real man to u, may b sum1 elses nitemare. gud luk findin 1....

Answer 10

Yes there's real men out there...I'm one. I love the female sex and always be sure their satisfied in every way when I'm with them. I enjoy making love to them and making sure they get sexually pleasured many time before I do. Women are ment to be pampered and fulfilled....then they return the pleasures 10 fold.

Answer 11

i am real man because i depend on myself i judge everything by my mind
i use my mind for everything
when i treat girls i treat them with gentle way by kind way
because girls are too sensitive need who give them emotional feeling that make them feel comfortable