Twin girls and pregnant with third?

Question

I am pregnant, due 3-24-07, with my third child. We don't know the sex yet, but when should we tell our three year old daughters. They are twins and are really close. How should I explain it to them. Also, if they ask 'where do babies come from' what should I tell them. Thanks.
Also, I am looking larger than I should at this point of my pregnancy. Do you think it is twins again, or I just look larger because of all ready having twins. And what are my chances of having twins again. And what are my chances of a girl.

Answer 1

If the twins were a result of two eggs or a splitting of a single zygote, you've got a fair chance of twins. However, 2nd pregnancies are sometimes more "out in front" than 1st ones because you've already birthed once.

As for what to tell the girls, tell them straight up that they've got a sibling coming and be open to their questions, concerns and insecurities. Kids that age might be a bit apprehensive about being "replaced" by the new baby.

Just give them as much love as you can right now and continue to give them as much attention as you're able after the baby's born.
Also, they're old enough to have an active role in the "upbringing" of the baby so they should be included in things like feedings, changings, chores, loving & coddling the newborn, etc.

And IF they ask (not every 3 yo is going to) just tell them that when mommy & daddy love each other a lot, a baby happens.

It'll grow in your belly like they did, and when the time is right, you'll all go to the hospital and soon they'll have a new bro/sis.

Kids are amazingly cognizant of the world around them; many parents have their young ones in the birthing room with them during labor & delivery these days. Consider it, discuss it with them & your husband, and with your doctor and other pregnant women to get a full scope of the idea.

Answer 2

Your chances of having a second set of twins is no more than it was the first time which is low. It is normal to look larger earlier in second pregnancy. Your body is more ready to adapt this time. Also your chance of having a girl is 50/50. Good Luck! Also I would tell your girls right away. Make a big deal about them being big sisters, let them help make some decisions, such as nursery decor. Let them know they are part of this. Also answers any questions they might have. I told my daughter that the new babies were a gift from God and Jesus helped put them in my tummy. That satisfied her, I didn't have to give her any details at this age. I was more straight forward when she wanted to know how they came out. I feel there is no reason to lie and say they come out of your belly button as some people do.

Answer 3

You have a higher chance of havong twins after you have had one set,but only if they are fraternal. Fraternal twins can be passed through the family from your side.Identical twins are not passed down,all that is ,is an egg that splits,its a miracle,but not hereditary.I know thats not your question i just wanted to clear up a comment left above.I think you'll have a boy! I have four singles and a pair of twins. My oldest daughters were 4,6,and8 when the twins were born and they were very involved.They used to visit the midwife with me.I told them mommy and daddy love eachother so god has blessed us with some more babies! I also told them the baby will come out of my vagina.I know it all sounds a little graphic to tell your young children but you should tell them.Your twins are girls so they need to know obviously the baby won't be coming out of mommy's belly button. You don't want to tell them that the stork dropped it off,just be honest so they know. I am studying to be a midwife,and i am a mother of 6,i have tried these things myself and they have gone well.They will love the baby, as long as they are involved and you let them help they will be so happy. Everything will wwork out fine for you.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Tell them right away and explain to them that they are going to be big sisters. Find some books for children on bringing a new baby into the home. Let them help decorate the room and pick out clothes . Try and make them as much involved as you can so they don't feel left out in the process. And when your belly gets bigger let them feel the baby move.

Answer 6

My five year old was asking me where her sister was going to come out. I just said well the doctor will take her out when shes ready. But when i came home she said let me see you stomach and then she said that it didn't come out my belly because it was n't cut. So i just told her a special place in your private. And she was over it. She really didn't care about it. She was only wondering for a moment. Give them anything that will satisfy their curiosity.

Are your twins identical or fraternal? Identical twins are chance, one egg grows two babies. They aren't hereditary. So if they are identical then the chance of having another set of twins is slim.

As for it being twins well it is really hard to tell.
http://multiples.about.com/cs/pregnancy/tp/aatpsigns.htm

could it be twins quizhttp://pregnancy.about.com/library/quiz/twinpg/bltwinpgquiz.htm


Check here to see what you could be having
http://www.childbirth.org/articles/boyorgirl.html

Answer 7

you should tell the girls now, i know my daughter loved the thought of being a big sis. she was 2 when i told her that their was a baby in Mommy's tummy. she was always there rubbing and kissing my belly, it was so cute. humm, what do ya tell them if they ask where babies come from. well my kids never really asked that when i was pregnant but after my third child i had my tubs tied and there was a scar on my belly button, so my son saw it and asked what happen to me and i told him that's how the baby came out of me. silly mommy don't ya know the belly button is the best place to tell a little one that's where the baby comes form.... i think its cute and funny. congrats on the new baby!! what are the twins names? i would be nice to here some baby names from you.

Answer 8

Just sit them down and ask them "Do you know what's in mommy's tummy?" and let them guess. Tell them "Mommy has a baby in her tummy!" If they ask that dreaded question "Where do babies come from" just say "They come from mommies bellies." That should be a good enough answer for a 3 yr. old. Explain to them that the baby is going to grow and grow and grow and when it gets big enough the baby will come out and see them and they will be big sisters.

Answer 9

From what I was told by my doctor since i have twins also a boy and a girl. it's a possibility you could have another set or not.

Answer 10

u should let them know...get them involved with the whole process.. u never know they may take the news better than u think... children have the tendency to get excited about things that they are involved in.... get them to think about having a younger brother or sister....someone they can look after and take care of....
Good Luck..:)