okay see theres this guy and we were in a great relantionship but he broke up with me.. for no reason.. we have the same friends and ive heard from one of his best friends that he still likes me.. we have talked a little but i still havent been able to tell him i still like him.. i have to tell him theres a voice in my head and my heart i should but how do i tell him without getting hurt in the end?
2006-10-19 08:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,
look as far as I've understood he is ashamed of his doings.
if he likes u, he must have appologized yet,
but if he is refraining from it may be, he is too ashamed of it to face u
or
he wants u to just forget what happened.
If u r sure that he likes u then give him a chance.
Actually not him but give urself a chance to judge whether he is able of ur friendship or not.
For this be polite with him; more then ever
if he is really ashamed, don't ask for apologize
forget everything and be with him
but if he is not, try to decide now
because I don't want u to be decieved again.
Hope it will prove good for u.
2006-10-19 09:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by M@n! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...Don't tell him about the "voice" in your head, and heart or he will probably think your crazy. Where to begin. First of all, a guy never breaks up with a girl "for no reason". He just probably didn't tell you the reason. He might have liked someone else that ended up rejecting him, or maybe even just got tired of you, the reason why he broke up with you isn't really important. The main thing to remember is that he DID break up with you. Move on!!!! If he wants you back now it's only because what he dumped you for didn't work out. Do you want to be someones second choice?
2006-10-19 09:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. You either have to take that risk or let it pass you by. Love is about opening up and sharing with the other person. If you are on the defense afraid of what might happen then you are holding back and not letting things happen the way they should. By that I mean that God has got your life planned already. Make sure and tell him everything your feeling including your worries about him feeling the same way. God is watching over you and he won't give you more than you can't handle. If you do tell him and it doesn't work out you will be stronger and God loves to comfort a broken heart. I say lay it all on the line and take that risk and never look back. Best wishes!
2006-10-19 09:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by janet_67_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same stupid thing once. I broke up with my girlfreind and later realized how dumb I was. Then to top it off, I wouldn't tell her I was wrong because I had already hurt her once and didn't want to hurt her a second time.
Stupidity ruling, another time, I fell for someone and didn't tell them for 20 years. The situation never seemed right. When I did let her know, I found out that she felt the same all these years.
My point, don't think about the hurt. It can heal. Think of the good that you can miss by holding back. And yes, he may be too stupid to do it. So it's in your hands now.
2006-10-19 09:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by daves-the-man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the game of love is not such a thing as not getting hurt, you must stand for what you feel. If you think that he needs to know you better tell him and be honest. Talk to him and let him know that no matter what you need to say that you miss him and that you still like him. Don't be afraid be happy about your feelings. Probably he wants to do the same and he is thinking the same thing because he was the one who end it. Just open your heart don't be scare man like women's who are secure and strong in there decisions. Good luck!
2006-10-19 09:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by kalitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy should come to you but if your aching to talk to him and tell him how you feel then I say go for it. Just go talk to him when he's by himself and tell him, don't be shy and if he likes you back then hopefully he'll let you know and if he doesn't then move on and find someone better.
2006-10-19 09:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come one, there is a reason behind everything! u might need to talk to him and find out the reasons before u tell him you like him then you wouldn't get hurt. if u find out the reason is a bigger issue for him to overcoming the fact he likes you, it's time to move on.
2006-10-19 09:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your still talking maybe you could aske him if he ever thinks of the two of you as a couple anymore and go fom there. with this question depending on the response you could think of something kinda funny to cover up any hurt or you could go ahead and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-19 09:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, you cant. You always have to take a chance with possible love. If it was easy, it wouldnt be love. Or even a strong relationship. You have to be ready for the chance that he will not want to get back with you.
2006-10-19 09:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends for a while and if there is anything between you it will happen. Sometimes guys like time to work things out for themselves.
2006-10-19 08:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋