I talked to him in Tecnology today we are close. We listen to teh same stuff. Like the same stuff. But I am not sure if I should tell him if I like him or not. I don't want tos scare him off, but yet I want to know if he has feelings for me too. So should i let him know I like him or should I wait?? HELP!
2006-10-19 08:47:56 · 15 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you ask him to hang out, outside of class? It is always flattering to have a girl ask you out. Then when you guys are hanging you can probably feel him out a little better. The worst thing he could do is say that he doesn't want to go out with you, in which case be thankful that you didn't pine after him more!
Whatever you decide, good luck.
2006-10-19 08:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by IrishGuy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the friendship. Do your research and revel in the growth of you relationship. People are in too much of a hurry to get to the end results. Wait - look - listen - experience the courtship of being wooed. Sounds silly, but you will regret the rush if you don't. The best thing that touches my soul deep down is watching this Senior couple (both in age and wedded years) take their nightly walk in our small town holding hands. I want that and I pray that for all the people that I care for.
2006-10-19 16:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he's taken, if not then find out why? You should try hanging out first somewhere casual; during the outing you should be able to tell if he's into you like that or does he talk about other women (or men!!)unless he's shy as well, then you'll have to make the first move and suggest something more romantic and see how he responds. Good Luck!
2006-10-19 15:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by mg1555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some light flirting might just let you know if he is open to a relationship with you right now and I would play it by ear on his reaction. good luck. Go slowly some men are scared off if you come on too strong.
2006-10-19 15:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about taking one of these things that you have in common (ie liking the same "stuff") and use it to your advantage. Invite him to a concert, movie, art show, etc etc etc and go from there. Find out if you really get along beyond the basics and if it works then you'll both go from there :) Good luck.
2006-10-19 15:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2006-10-19 15:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope your smarter in Technology class than you are in new relationships, how can you "love" someone if you haven't talked to him more than 2 minutes, why meet him you will smoother him with your "love" then have to break up and go through all that emotion, learn to treat boys like friends and a relationship will follow, love comes with time and alot of giving and taking, not a few short words in class
2006-10-19 15:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you truly know someone its hard to be in love..there is a LOT more to love than liking good stuff... if you think you are really attracted to this person.. find opportunitiesto get to know them better.. not onlyu on dates but also see how they are with other people.. if you are truly in love than having more opportunities will help you fall in love more.. in the meanwhile be patient... observe... before you walk the path to heart break..
all the best!!
2006-10-19 15:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by The phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlike women men do not over think things so we appreciate it when a women is straight forward and blunt we men r dense you more or less have to hit us in the face with something to get us to notice so be blunt say what u mean and mean what u say
2006-10-19 15:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known this person and have the two of you actually met or is this another computer match-up?
Should you guys actually know one another then yes - by all means tell him....other wise forget it.
2006-10-19 15:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Grandfather Oak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋