There is this guy in my class that is shorter than me and he embarrases me everyday by calling me ugly. I ams tart ing to think that I am ugly. Everybody treats me differently an dI hate that.
http://168.11.164.79/Krista%20Haffa/photos/MyPhotos/slides.stm
This is my pic from last year(first one).
Do I look ugly to you?
2006-10-19 08:41:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart , your not Ugly , i looked at the pic. Dont worrie about that as.s hole guy. Guys can be such buttheads. an when your young an in school guys are even worse .. dont sweat the small stuff , Hold you pretty head up high an smile !!!!
2006-10-19 08:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit letting him call you ugly. He is short, so you can come back and say something about that. He is insecure because of his height or whatever it is inside of him and the way he feels he can cope is by putting other people down. You never know, he may have issues going on at home, but it is still no excuse to talk to someone the way he does.
You are a pretty girl. The girl in the second picture is pretty too. Don't let someone like him bring you down.
I'm serious about saying something back to him. People are probably treating you differently because you are not sticking up for yourself. When people see that, they will try to walk all over you and you can not settle for that.
Stand up for yourself and do not take the abuse any longer.
2006-10-19 15:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by mscutie_26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy its probably one of two possibilities. He has trouble with his own self image, you say he is short, guys have image problems too you know :^) Why do you think most billionaires are short guys.... Sometimes the easiest way to stop yourself from hurting is to project your inadequacies onto others.
The second thought is that he likes you, your not ugly so its not an entirely out of the realms of possibility! We do work that way sometimes, especially as younger guys we don't like our mates to think we're eyeing up the girls!
I'm sure it's hard, lots of people aren't happy unless they are messing with other people's lives. Some are just plain bullies if it keeps going on don't be afraid to stand up for your self, you DON'T have to put up with it. Take care!
2006-10-19 16:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Arachne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shorter than you, has little man syndrome and wants to make himself feel better by putting you down.
Basically this guy is a jerk who is insecure and acts like an *** to cover up his own apperance issues. Your not ugly at all...
2006-10-19 15:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is compensating for his insecurity of being shorter than you. I think your a beautiful young lady. Let no one tell you different. My friend was also teased in school and called giraffe because she was tall. Me I was teased because I was short (midget). Dont let them get to you. You are a beautiful young lady and one day he'll realize that. Stay strong.
2006-10-19 15:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by summer love 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u r definatley not ugly. That other boy has some issues, and dont let it get to you, especially dont let it knock ur confidence. Know ur beautiful and he will move on to whoever he sees next, just ask him what his problem is. Good Luck, and be happy
2006-10-19 15:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy probably feels self-conscious about his heighth. why don't you say something like this, "no matter how much you put me down, you won't grow an inch and I won't like you more." or say, "grow up even though you can't grow taller." He has a problem---not you. You can try talking w/him one on one and tell him that what he says is not funny. Sorry that you have to put up w/ignorant people.
2006-10-19 15:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not ugly, and just because someone is telling you that don't believe it! ask him to stop if he doesn't try talking to a teacher or school concelor. remember some people like to put others down because they feel bad about themselves.
2006-10-19 15:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who tells another they are ugly are just insecure people. Do not let it bother you, karma is the key, it will come back to him!
2006-10-19 15:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by bam.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe this jerk,
Just saw your picture, you look real cute. What the matter with your thinking? You need to work on your attitude girl.
2006-10-19 15:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋