I was just on msn and my ex boyfriend just said hi to me after 4 months of no contact. He was really nosy and wanted to see what I was up to. He especially wanted to know what I wanted to do after I graduate from university. We both go to the same university although I'm an undergrad and he's already in grad school. Neways, we only dated for one month in January, he ended it saying he was "busy". Also, it was a very innocent relationship, only kissing cuz he knew I wanted to save sex for marriage. After he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn but then he eventually stopped doing that. Then today he said hi to me on msn and I was really shocked! Is he curious?, and is it nothing or does he still like me and miss me? We talked very short and I ended it saying I had to go.
Why does he still care? Also, next time he says hi should I just ignore him or ask him why he's still contacting me? but he might just think I'm crazy to say that.
2006-10-19 08:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him. Is he worth the time? How do you feel? I can only guess that he was seeing someone else at that time. Why are you worried by what he thinks. He ended it by saying He was "busy". I don't know about you but he sounds like he's crazy. I think you are worth much more than "busy". I wouldn't let him have too much in roads to you. If you want, just keep it light and breezy.
2006-10-19 08:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just curious to see what you are up to. I had an ex contact me recently through myspace about 5 years after we broke up just to chat and catch up and really close the book on how things ended with us. I don't know about interest...as I see it there may still be some interest there for him or at least the interest to keep in contact. I don't think it hurts to keep things friendly as long as you both know where it stands.
2006-10-19 08:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for him, be bold and ask him if he wants to be your friend (if you can handle it) or if he interested in getting back with you. If he isn't interested, then leave him alone. He's only stringing you on emotionally and it will prevent you from moving on to a better relationship.
Sounds like he might be bored or miserable and just wants to see if he can still have you if he wanted.
2006-10-19 08:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd watch my step. Sounds like he is fishing around for something, who knows what. If you have no interest to be involved with him as a b-friend then keep your distance while still being polite and cordial. No sense in being alof or nasty.
2006-10-19 08:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by plitsmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to bang you. Because he misses that @ss he used to tap.
2006-10-19 08:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's curious and trying to remain a friend.
2006-10-19 08:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just saw you online and wanted to say whats up....dont read into the small stuff so much
2006-10-19 08:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's keeping his option open to see if something changes in his current lovelife where you are at. its called a backup plan
2006-10-19 08:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to treat u according to his convenience...if he says hi wish him back,nothing more.he seems selfish...
2006-10-19 08:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋