I want to go to the movies tonight by myself since my boyfriend can't go tonight. I told him I was going alone. I told him I would be fine and that I had mace to protect me. He told me if I was not going to go with someone he didn't want me to go. It got to the point he told me to call my ex (one which he hates with a passion). I asked him if he was that worried about me but he just simply said "Go with someone or don't go at all. If you go alone I will talk to you tomorrow night". Is this just his way of saying he is worried about me or is he being jealous of something that is not there? Never had a guy act this way..
Little about me.. I am just under 5 feet tall and about 130lbs. I don't run very well due to my handicap. But still I have never had a guy act like this..
2006-10-19 08:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he might be ok with it now but might get mad later.. why give him an opportunity to flare up? instead surprise him with movie tickets on a day you know he can make it.. in the meanwhile.. spoil yerself tonight... take a long soak in a hot tub.. wash your hair... and the likes.. and curl up to a tape of your favourite movie of a good book... call your boyfriend and tell him you are crazy about him.. and that although you really wanted to go you preffered to go with him than anyone else.. and wait for him to do something special:)
2006-10-19 08:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by The phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heed the warning - my boyfriend was like that and never wanted me to go anywhere alone. I was attacked one day in the middle of the day and people who witnessed the incident told the police they thought that it was a domestic dispute and didnt want to get involved. It has been very hard getting over this incident. Don't think that something bad can't happen to you - I know from experience that it can. This guy must really care about you to even bring up the ex. That just means that he prefers that you dont go alone!
2006-10-19 15:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by rjbl0714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are right he is worried for you but do this go out with a few of your girlfriends and if they dont have the money go rent a new movie and hello sleep over you guys can like no well go rent a movie or wait tell tomorrow and rent a movie and have your bf come over have a fun night
2006-10-19 15:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that he's acting weird.
you definitely have some thinking to do . . .do you want to be in a relationship with a man who is THAT overprotective? doesn't sound healthy to me.
It's just a movie. You didn't say that you were going to travel around the world by hitch-hiking and begging.
It's definitely HIS issue, not yours.
2006-10-19 15:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by raquel122203 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is truly concerned for you. why don't you ask him? I think you can park close to the theatre and walk in w/bunch of people and walk out w/a bunch. Please talk w/him about this more. you want to make certain that he is assured of your safety plan--if that is the concern. Also, he should not stifle you or coddle you--you did exist w/out him being there.....
2006-10-19 15:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just worried.. but why would you want to go to the cinema alone it is abit dangerous for females.. whether your handicapped or not??!! i think he has the right thinking.. go with someone or just stay in man.. good luck :)
2006-10-19 15:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by uniqu3ang3l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worried if he was jealous he wouldnt have suggested you going with someone .. suggestion rent a movie and chill with your man
2006-10-19 15:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has control issues, He is playing mind games with you. Watch out, its a vicious game.
2006-10-19 15:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by miomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just shows that he cares....but 4 him to tell u 2 call ur ex to go....thats a lil weird
2006-10-19 15:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far as you can from this man, he is obviously crazy and you don't want these things to manifest
2006-10-19 15:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋