i had this dream tht i fell in luv with a boi n he luved me bk, but i keep remembering it n i feel really low n depressed n lonely, how can i get a boyfreind cz all the bois in my year are immature and annoying remmber im 14 tho!
2006-10-19 08:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by laydee.marmalade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself and be an outgoing happy person and they will be attracted to you. Guys like strong minded girls. Hang out with your friends and make sure you dont fall for some tough guy loser that would give you any respect later on. They are the worst types out there!!
2006-10-19 08:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself. I know it is hard being 14. You should concentrate on your studies and try to get a strong education because when you graduate, the competition will be even tougher. You should also try and be yourself. At your age, most boys are emotionally 2 yrs behind. What does a 12 yr old know about love. Most boys at your age are driven by their hormone. Make friends and volunteer your time if you are lonely--another boy can't make you less lonely.
2006-10-19 15:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, at 14 is your body really that amazing that you think guys are getting with you just for that? secondly, stop being so desperate, you're 14, you don't need a boyfriend, have fun with your friends, you're in high school, enjoy it. The point of a boyfriend isnt just for the heck of it to look cool or cause a guy is "cute" it is essentially supposed to be so that you could find the person you want to marry. Now are you honestly telling me that at 14 you are ready to find the person you want to marry? doubt it, therefore, just have guy friends that you enjoy spending time with and it will release all the complications of a "relationship." Stop putting so much pressure on yourself, enjoy high school!
2006-10-19 15:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell u this but men really not get any better with age and im 27. you need to focus on school right now. love will come at least I hope cause im still waiting. find yourself first and then and only then God will send that special someone just for u.
Remember education is power, then will soon fall at your feet.
2006-10-19 15:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by downsouthchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, ur only 14. don't be thinking 'bout that!!! Dont let not having a bf get u down, ur young. hang out with ur friends, go to the movies, get involved in sports, go to ur local mall, just do things that make u happy. u'll have plenty of time later to think about a bf. besides, it seems like ur looking, don't, b'cuz when u least x-pect it, love will find u. . . trust me!!! Good Luck!!! Go out and enjoy urself.
2006-10-19 15:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lil'MissSnshne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young to even be thinking about that.
i know at your age, it seems like everyone has a bf or gf.
it's not true. don't even care about that.
someone will come for you.
you'll never find love if you keep looking for it.
trust me.
i never looked for love. sure there were times i wish i had somebody to hold me. but in reality, i didn't care about being single before. THERE WAS LESS DRAMA IN MY LIFE. and i was happy.
my bf was my friend for a long time. who knew that i'd fall for him? who knew that the one was right under my nose the entire time?
just be happy.
2006-10-19 15:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, look at it this way, you need to spend time away from guys. You need to spend some time on your self and try and get in touch with what you really want, besides you don't need a guy to make you whole. spend time with your friends and have a good time and maybe in time that special person will find his way twards you.
2006-10-19 15:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by shadowed_desire_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up some more then ask the question, like about 23
2006-10-19 15:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Erv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself involved with school activities and sports and it'll take your mind off the thinking and feeling down. Peace......
2006-10-19 15:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Strangerinstrangeland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god. Grow the **** up first. Also, you might want to get a brain and learn to communicate properly, because even if you're 'cute', looks don't last forever honey.
2006-10-19 15:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋