my boyfriend and i split up, and i still really love him, but if i try to talk 2 him or email him ot text him he just ignores me? what should i do?
2006-10-19 08:08:17 · 43 answers · asked by -x-Alice-x- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just move on honey. I know that's not an option for you right now seeing that you still are in-love with this guy, but I have learned that when you try to chase after someone that obviously wants to end things and has done so you make the situation so much worse and more heartbreaking. The more you bug him the more he's going to ignore you. If you and this guy are meant to be together you will be together. If he really wants to talk to you and be with you again he will. Don't do this to yourself. I know it hurts because I've been there, but you have to let things run their course. What is meant to be will be whether it's good or bad. Life is not fair and it never will be. You have to always remember that and find strength from within when you face tough times like this. Good luck to you and I hope things can turn around for you one way or the other.
2006-10-19 08:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ended things then you have to give him space. Calling, emailing, and texting all at the same time tends to push exes away. If you've told him how you feel and he's choosing to ignore it then you might want to consider moving on. I've learned this the hard way.
2006-10-19 08:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by lyricaleight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just needs more time to think of what went wrong and see if he can handle it. Reality hurt and it's hard to brush aside and start over. But you didn't explain what was the reason for splitting up so I can't really tell you what you should do. Sorry. Good luck.
2006-10-19 08:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like that country song says " I gotta new girlfriend"
Go find you another man.
Don't stay around and wait for him.
Do you think he is doing the same thing?
Hell No.
Go have a good time and put a big smile on your face.
Shake a leg and have a blast with your friends and
if something should happenend.it was meant to happend.
Life is too short to stay home and pout about him.
Live life and make things happened!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 08:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is you need to just let it go. You are only pushing him further away and lessening the chance of even any kind of civil relationship in the future.
It takes two working at a relationship to make it work. He obviously is not contributing to it. Time to turn your attentions moving on and healing.
2006-10-19 08:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Calina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing; he knows you still care about him; and is trying to play hard to get; he just wants u to keep "running" behind him and don't do that..... please don't. But, what I suggest you do is to move on. Try too.... and if he really loved you at first HE WILL COME BACK TO YOU! I hope everything works out for the 2 of yall.... and i hope you get back together
2006-10-19 08:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is ignoring you then you should try your best to move on. It may be hard, but in the long run it would be best. It just doesn't makes sense to hang onto someone that won't give you the time of day.
2006-10-19 08:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some fun activities to occupy your time and distract you. You can't make someone want you. Take some time to get to know yourself before jumping into another relationship too. You sound like the clingy type too and guys hate that.
2006-10-19 08:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off Yahoo Answers and switch over to Yahoo Personals.
2006-10-19 08:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, i do no longer think of you ought to permit him get interior the way of your life. Your nevertheless youthful so why no longer adventure life greater till now settling down with somebody. yet once you relatively do love him and have faith your dating will artwork out, there is no longer something combating you. As they say, age is yet a quantity.
2016-11-23 19:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋