I want to SEDUCE him, BUT HOW??????

Question

I have been dating someone for the past two months. We both are very much physically and emotionally attracted to each other, we have exchanged “I love you’s” to each other also. We both try to stay in an environment with lots of people surrounding us. But, temptation lies. At times – I know when we kiss goodnight; it can lead to other things if one of us doesn’t pull back. I want to get intimate with him but then again, I feel we should wait. I need tips on how to seduce a man – coz it’s been ages since getting intimate with someone. How does a woman seduce her man?? What can I do or say for him to make the first move?? What can I do to give him hints…? We both are mature adults (I’m 28, and he’s 35). I don’t want to look cheap or as a whore. I want this to be passionate and very nice….any tips on how seduce a man??

Answer 1

Are you serious?????????????????????????????
What culture are you from???

DON'T PLAY GAMES IF YOU WANT THINGS TO LAST.

Just be honest with him and tell him what you want. Alternatively, the next time you and he are making out just let your hand stray. If he is erect just procede. But first fellate him before having intercourse; that way you can talk freely and honestly with him after he first orgasms and he is calmed down about the relationship you want before you go the entire distance with him,

Answer 2

Build a relationship with him first. Get to know enough about each other that will last, long after your bodies stop producing those "new relationship chemaicals" that give you that "high" you feel right now. If he really sees relationship potential in you, he will wait for you. You will be a challenge for him to get to know, as well as get you into bed. That is the best way to seduce him. It's not 'playing hard to get' but rather "not putting out to try to get him to love you". Don't think that that technique works. It removes the challenge and the desire to know more about you. Wait a couple more months.......then tell him you want him but you don't want to go there if this relationship isn't going anywhere.
If you come on too strong, too soon, he may feel pressure to perform, or that you have some ulterior motive such as financial gain, or to be taken care of.

Answer 3

This is too cute. Sweetheart you already have. I am so impressed with the fact that you haven't jumped into bed with him yet. What you are feeling is that you "want" him physically. I am willing to bet he feels the same way about you. My advice to you is not to rush things, let nature takes it's course. With this kind of build up you have wonderful hours of passion that lie ahead. Right now you are getting to know each other, learning how to respect each other and sensing a longing for something deeper. I think you are on the right track. If your relationship was going to be based on sex alone you would have already went there. Stop rushing and savor each and every moment until it happens. You both will be so overwhelmed the first time will be hurried on both parts. But whoopeeeeeeee wait until number 4 and 5 and 6...get it.

Answer 4

Tell him lets take vacation at a hotel. Somewhere where there's a pool and a nice restaurant and a nice park or foreat or something to walk around in.

He'll know what you mean when you say "hotel" and he will be able to prepare for an event.

I would for example, get the room, bring some candles, make sure there's chanpagne on ice, bring a stereo. Make reservations at the restaurant, making sure you get either a private seat or a seat with a view, or at least somethign dramatic. Go back to the room put the music on, with her in my arms I'd go and light each candle, whispering things to her as we go around the room, dance with her a little, and when the moment seem right get down to about 3-4 hours of marathon sex with LOTS of foreplay.

Answer 5

im 35 and for a while i was separated from my wife. being new to the dating scene, i was also unsure what to do. i think the best and most romantic thing to do is to have a DVD movie date. eat a light salad and chicken breast dinner with some wine, (dont let him drink too much) actually skip the wine. it makes his willy go nilly. and you do not want that. during the movie sit on the floor and nibble desert from the coffee table. fresh cherries are desert that are great to feed to each other. squirt some cherry jiuce on his neck and kiss it off. encourage him to do the same. while he is kissing the juice off your neck shove the coffee table out of the way and pull him on top of you. i think you can take it from here. have fun! USE PROTECTION! i don't care how ling you have known him. men can carry stuff for years and have no symptoms. WRAP THAT WRASCAL!

Answer 6

BEFORE YOU TOLD ME YOUR AGE I WOULD'VE HAVE SWORN YOU WERE 21, OKAY GO THE SIMPLE ROUTE. GO TO DINNER AT DINNER HAVE A FEW GLASSES OF WINE JUST A FEW MEANING 2, DEPENDING ON HOW MUCH ALCOHOL YOU CAN HANDLE YOU WANT TO HAVE A BUZZ NOT GET DRUNK IN FACT DON'T GO TO DINNER COOK HIM DINNER HAVE THE LIGHTS DIM SOME CANDLES GOING MAKE SURE YOU TAKE A BATH BEFORE HE COMES OVER GET ALL SOFT AND SMELLING GOOD AND SINCE YOUR AT HOME DON'T USE PERFUME USE SPRAY OF SOME SORT YOU KNOW VICTORIA'S SECRET SOMETHING SUTTLE BUT SEXY, CLEAN SHEETS THE WHOLE NINE, COOK HIM A GOOD MEAL WHATEVER HIS FAVORITE IS DURING DINNER HAVE A FEW DRINKS BUT BE YOUR SELF. DON'T TRY TO BE ULTRA SEXY GUYS CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH THAT, IF YOUR, YOURSELF THEN YOUR COMFORTABLE AND EVERY THING WILL BE NATURAL. AFTER DINNER GO AND CHILL SOMEWHERE WHETHER IT BE THE SOFA OR THE BEDROOM AND JUST TALK, NORMALLY WHILE STILL WORKING ON THAT BOTTLE OF WINE BUT STILL WATCH YOUR INTAKE IF YOUR DRUNK YOUR WORHTLESS AFTER A FEW GLASSES COMBINED WITH THE MOOD THAT YOU'VE ALREADY SET WITH THE DINNER AND CANDLES HE'LL GET THE HINT AND YOU BOTH WILL KINDA JUST GO FOR IT. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE ON SOMETHING THAT SHOWS OFF ALL YOUR ASSETS AND IS VERY SEXY BUT NOT SLEAZY NO LINGERIE WHATEVER TOP THAT YOU KNOW YOU LOOK CUTE IT EVEN THOUGH IT'S REALLY NOTHING AND SOME NICE FITTING JEANS OR SOMETHING. NO MAKEUP A LIGHT COAT OF MASCERA AND LIP GLOSS THAT'S IT PIN YOUR HAIR UP REAL SEXY BUT MESSY YOU KNOW. DON'T TRY TO BE ANYTHING THAT YOU AREN'T THAT WILL JUST MAKE YOU NERVOUS AND THINGS WILL BE FAKE AND UNEASY, BE COOL AND REMEMBER YOU HAVE DONE THIS BEFORE YOU WANT IT SO GO AFTER IT. TRUST ME HE WILL NOT REJECT YOU. AND REMEMBER IT'S JUST SEX DON'T GET IT IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU HAVE TO PULL FIRE OUT OF YOU A** FOR HIM TO ENJOY IT SEX IS HOW PASSIONATE OR SLEAZY YOU MAKE IT BY HOW YOU CARRY YOUR SELF BEFORE DURING AND AFTER YOU DO IT. HAVE FUN YOU'LL DO FINE. AND KEEP IN MIND HE'S WAY MORE NERVOUS ABOUT HIS PERFORMANCE THEN YOU'LL EVER BE.

Answer 7

I'm asking you a personal question. You talk of physical attraction. Have you kissed each other intimately? Just how far have you two gone ?
You don't have to answer this in public.

Answer 8

Hi honey,,,

Hmm, he is 35 and you have been dating for 2 months and he hasnt put the move on you yet?? Man, something is not right with him.. is all i can think..

Personally if after 2 months we had not ended up in the sack,, i would have gone elsewhere.... no offense ment here....

You may have to put on the nightie and drag him to bed dear.. if he is that shy...

good luck

Answer 9

Next time you kiss say something to the affect that wow - that tasted great - what else are you holding back from me? and dont be afraid to let your hand his private parts over his pants to see if he is hard for you or not - if he is things should take off from there - if he's not hard after a romantic kiss and sharing with him that yu want more then I would say there isnt physical attraction there. goodluck and have fun - be adventurous, its fun

Answer 10

Tell him that work, school, life, etc... has just been to much recently for you and you need a little vacation. Drop it as a hint for him to plan it as a "surprise" for you. Being away from every day life will spark something that isn't there at the moment. Has worked for me in the past.