If a person is perfect, then stir. If they are not, keep your mouth shut. One day it will back fire.
2006-10-19 07:46:38 · 5 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this life, wherever you are, or wherever you go, there arewill always be trouble makers around. I just ignore them.
2006-10-19 07:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what kind of person you are. You sound a bit outspoken and agressive. In fact, the way your qeustion is worded by using 'YOUR', which I feel is referring to me, makes me feel that you are defensive and accusatory. I feel you come across as a beeyatch and I feel your words are saying to me to shut up.. Try using "I" statements when conversing with people.
Do you treat others with respect and grace? Or are you a beeyotch? You know how you are, not us. Maybe you should try to treat others the way you would like to be treated. It has to become mutual for them to stir up positive things and vice versa.
I had a dear friend who was a very outspoken beyyatch and at first, I didn't like her. Then, I accepted her behavior as her personality and acceptance was key. She is still a beeyatch, but in doing so, I learned it was her personality. I accepted her for who she was and we are still friends, 33 years later.
Now, all of that was an assumption based on the way you posted your question. Maybe you are just angry and were angry when you posted it. If you are a pretty woman, then, others will be catty. If you really are a nice type personality, you should not have so many problems. I am just guessing here so, can I at least have my 2 points? Hee Hee...I asked a question and didn't even have to give up any points! LOL!
I sincerely hope that things get better for you. :)
2006-10-19 15:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having trouble with more than one person, it's makes people wonder, "Why?". Why ARE you having problems with multiple people? If it's one person, ask. If it's hearsay, take a hard look at your sources. If it's paranoia, see a shrink...
2006-10-19 14:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are assholes.
No other reason.
2006-10-19 14:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by ModerndayMadman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is so true
2006-10-19 14:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by leglover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋