2006-10-19 07:43:38 · 29 answers · asked by drugged ass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wont know
2006-10-19 07:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask the girl and trust her answer. If you don't trust her, don't sleep with her. I am als wondering why it is so impotant to you (beyond the ever important health issues.) I pray you do not see this young lady's virginity is a prize to be won. Virginity is the most sacred gift that can be given, and should not be seen as a trophy.
Bleeding, or lack thereof, is not an accurate sign. if bleeding connotes lsck og virginity, I lost my virginity to a bicycle seat at ten. Also, a considerate lover uses patience and skill to gently stretch the hymen to reduce, if not eliminate, bloodshed. It may be a traditional rite of pssage, but it is a barbaric one.
Do you desire this young lady's viginity brcause you love her to ditraction and want this to be a moment to treasure forever, or is this a macho trophy? It you are a trophey hunter, shame on you...You are neither a gentlemam or even a man. YOU ARE A LOUTISH CAD.
Are you a virgin? If not, would you like to be judged a lesser being for having loved before? Let's keep a little perspective on this. Love is a beautiful thing. I would rather be the LAST true love of someones;s lifethan the first.
2006-10-19 08:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by motown_annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to ask her and take her word for the truth! Usually a virgin will bleed when deeply penetrated but not always since sometime the membrane is thin and can be broken just by horse back riding or some other activity other then sex! Some virgins have a thick membrane that may take a while to break and it can be quiet painful! Remember that different women are different!
2006-10-19 07:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if her hymen breaks when you have sex with her for the first time, this is definitely the best indication that she was a virgin prior to you having sex with her. However, if it has already been broken, then this doesn't mean that she wasn't a virgin. It is possible that she could have broken it during masturbation or if she participated in gymnastics in her younger days, she could have easily broken it, as this is a very fragile thing to break.
2006-10-19 07:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless the guy "testing" is experienced -you wouldnt be able to tell.The only thing that is different is a very thin covering called the hymen-that will break the first time. The only thing is the hymen could have previously broke due to an accident,or the hymen may not even break if the force or size of the penis isnt big enough.
2006-10-19 07:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will bleed a little. Plus usually there's some pain involved. Extreme nervousness is almost always present.
Virginity only means that you need to be careful of her needs since she's never done it before. Don't get frustrated if she draws back, it's a big step. Give her lots of hugs and kisses and when she's ready again, she'll move to try. eventually it will work and you can have the time of your lives!
2006-10-19 07:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't. Just because a girl's hymen is ruptured, this is no conclusive evidence that it was ruptured during sexual intercorse. Some hymens rupture from doing exercise, or some other unknown reason. Any doctor can confirm what I said.
2006-10-19 07:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same way a gal knows if a guy is one.
2006-10-19 07:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Step 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a very deep question! but how can you tell if a guy is a virgin?
wow i asked a questions and gained 2 pts!
2006-10-19 07:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...just by looking at her you won't know. If you go to have sex with her and it slips right in with absolutely no problems..uhm..she's probably not a virgin.
2006-10-19 07:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't, we just assume, especially whit all the crying and hessitation... but then again the first time hurts like hell, or at least that is what i am told...
2006-10-19 07:45:53 · answer #11 · answered by mpkardinal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋