hello community members am a bit confused about the way my girlfriend behaves at times.she admires other guys while she is talking to me,it is not like that am not smart or have a dull personality am a very good looking guy but still she admires other guys by comments like "oh look he looks so handsome", i love her a lot and she says that am a very lovable guy,and she says she too love me. but this kind of admiration for other guys bugs me. One more strange thing that bugs me about her is that she narrated me an incidence where she was given a flying kiss by a stranger and to my amazement she said that she "ENJOYED IT" . Now this is the kind of thing we Indian ppl find annoying.Dear guys and gals of the forum i please need ur advice,am really confused about her behaviour.Do u ppl find it normal???
2006-10-19 07:33:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no that is not okay. if she is completely interested in you then she should only be looking at you. Also she might be doing that if she feels like you ahve dont that to her. Nothing is more disrespectful and hurtful than her doing that to you. Let her know it bothers you, and if she blows it off then you need to end it. That girl is full of disrespect and obviously wont care about you. If she didn't know that it bothered you then you guys communicated and solved the problem. You should really tell her how you feel instead of getting out opiions. If you cant talk to your girlfriend about how you feel, then you guys are not meant to be.
2006-10-19 07:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by keeping it real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to tell us that you don't look at other women and find them attractive? If a woman threw a kiss at you you, wouldn't you think it was nice. It doesn't sound like she was going to leave you for the guy throwing the kiss just that she was flattered by it.Maybe you could try doing little romantic things for her, like giving her a flower for no reason or taking her on a picnic to the park. Tell her how pretty she looks in that colour or you like her hair that way. If her looking at other men and her telling you about it makes you feel uncomfortable tell her but she won't stop looking she'll just stop telling you about it. So you'll be telling her to lie to you not a good thing for your relationship.
Tell her you think she's great and just let the rest go. I'm sure there is things you do that bug her too. Be thank full you have someone in your life that you like enough to be jealous.
2006-10-19 14:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by m-j d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she maybe admiring other guys but she is with u, prefers your company rather than any other guy's. this should tell u a lot. every relationship needs some space in it. do not try to suffocate her by imposing dos & don'ts, if u cannot handle it then its better u move off, rather than sitting on judgement on he actions & what she tells u. everybody likes to be admired. atleast she is being honest about it. there are any who would be doing similar things but possibly behind your back. think of what a rude shock that would turn out to be for u when u discovered the truth.
appreciate the honesty in your girlfriend. u could jokingly tell her how it used t irk u earlier seeng her admire another guy but now u have to come to appreciate her honesty, see how she reacts & that would tell u how genuine she is.
2006-10-19 15:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she compulsively admires each and every handsome guy that passes her way, it sure isn't normal. If she enjoyed the flying kiss of a total stranger, I suppose she wants to be admired by every man in sight. You are just another man who admires her and you don't mean anything special to her. She may be flirty by nature too. Anyway, repetition of such behaviour is annoying indeed. Its better for you to tell her what you think of her behaviour instead of tolerating such nonsense indefinitely.
2006-10-19 15:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a big deal if your GF admires other guys, The main thing is she really loves you after all that matters is true love even we guys sumtimes admire other girls.so just have fun with your GF & enjoy your life buddy.dont ever get too possesive tackle the situation calmly.
2006-10-19 17:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. It's when she starts dating outside your relationship is when you do something. Tell her that you don't like it and explain why, Ask her to not do it when your there. Try this the next time a hotty walks by give her a dose of her own medicine and then tell her what she's feeling is what you feel when she looks at other guys. Then grab her butt.
2006-10-19 14:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure and looking to see if you will get jealous because it makes her feel better. Either that, or she is just callous and rude. I don't know her- you decide.
I do catch my BF looking at girls, but he never comments and I would not be happy if he did, because it is just disrespectful. Heck, I look too- who doesn't? As long as we save the sweet lovin for each other.
2006-10-19 14:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u really have trust in ur gf then u would not have asked this question here.if u really luv her u must be in full confidence .if u dont ike it then u must directly tell her that u dont like it.i want to tell u this also,a gal can admire thousands of gus but she will luv only one.my gf is like that.she tells me that she likes many guys but i ahve not told here 2 stop them.but always she tells me that even though i admire many guys i luv oly u
2006-10-19 17:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by sudharshan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she does this for the shock value, as I am sure she would be very up set if you were to admire other girls open and in her presence, Tell her how you feel, if it is all right with you maybe she can look, but keep her thoughts to herself, just like we all do
2006-10-19 14:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Althought annoying, she isn't doing anything that you do everyday. If it is becoming peevish, then you have to be honest with her.
She may just have a flirtatious personality, which is unfortunate since you seem to be the jealous type.
2006-10-19 14:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by jazzyfresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋