But he keeps calling me and saying he love me, even though we both know our family's hate each other(no please no Romeo and Juliette)...He's younger than me and i know he'll get over it faster than me but is just hurts not to be with him and not to kiss him...but i'm being the strong one and i know at the end when this is all over i'll still love him for the rest of my life....so you think i'm creazy???...all i know his the first person i've ever love...i had so many guys in my life but this person is the first one i really truly love....4 ever
2006-10-19 07:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by nhng06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE'S 20 I AM 25...
2006-10-19 07:42:09 · update #1
First of all is it a big age difference? Whats up? Sounds like yall really care about each other and that yall are both hurting in this. If yall care so much and hes not a baby then dont let the family keep you apart. Your happiness is what should matter and it sounds to me like you are really not happy about this choice. If you let your families decide things for you now, that is the way it will be your whole lives. Age is a factor to an extent, but if its not like you are robbing the cradle and there have been no serious issues with you and him then dont give up what you care about.
2006-10-19 07:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel your pain. I too have a very soft and special place in my heart for my first true love. You are not crazy at all. You have to keep being strong and move on with your life. Not easy but, you are not getting any younger and there is another out there for you I am sure. If you want things in your life like marriage, kids ya know the family stuff then that is what you need to be aiming for and tell this guy not to call you anymore. After you tell him, don't talk to him. You need to be cold on this one but you have to think of you, you need to move on toward your dreams, it is your life.
I know, I have been there too. I am married now to someone else and have kids and am really happy. My ex is still in my heart. He'll always be there.
2006-10-19 07:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he will get over it sooner than you will, im sure it is breaking his heart as much or not more than yours, whos to say.if both of you love each other, what is the problem. is he mature for his age? does he have a job? is he responsible?does he treat you with respect, kindness, love?what is the problem if you can answer yes to the questions. who is to say your parents will not like the next person you fall in love with.
2006-10-19 07:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what your family think of each other! Obviously you two want to be together so be together. Your family should put their anger aside for your happiness if you really love him. Same for his family. Besides your dating him, not his family.
2006-10-19 07:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you have to do to please your family for now. And if the love you expressed is that strong, it will last! when the time is right, you will have each other!
2006-10-19 07:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him not to call you anymore, that it's too hard. Or just start screening your calls and don't answer calls from him.
2006-10-19 09:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's forever... You'll get over it in time. Tell him to stop harrassing you, and move on.
2006-10-19 07:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What soap opera is this?
2006-10-19 07:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by chazzer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋