Ok I met this guy through a mutual friend one day on myspace I requested him as a friend. A few days later he asked for my # and stated that maybe we could hang out sometime. I ended up giving him my # instead... He calls all the time. About 3-4 times a day. Just chating. He invites me to go over and watch his lil bro play softball or hang out but i havent been able to with work. So the other day I invite him over and he wants to come inside (to my room) but i decline b/c i dont want to do anything i might regret (sexual). After he leaves he says he will call me later. Its been a few days now???
Did he just want some?
2006-10-19 07:23:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 19:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
off hand guess is that he just wanted to get some But he could have just got busy and will get around to calling. I have a friend that is like that calls all the time then i dont hear from them for a while but he just gets busy with his job and all. so maybe thats the case here. But do be careful. There are those out there that think a few phone calls is enough for a roll in the hay when they come visit
2006-10-19 14:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought he'd get laid, and since you didn't put out, he's not interested. He might call you again and see if he can get you into bed, but if you don't, he'll most likely disappear.
Next time, forget the "hanging out" thing and wait for a guy to ask you on a real date. Don't invite strange men you've never dated to your place- it gives them the wrong impression and they might assume you're offering sexual favors.
2006-10-19 14:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have a Bf that you've been with on & off for the past 7yrs?
2006-10-20 14:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i got the same prob alot of people are tellin me to dump his ***! they say he's just with me to get some! answer my question
2006-10-19 14:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by N1¢KOZ BABY LA9RIMA5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way that i think i think that that is all he wanted was sex and that was it but hey thats what most guys want so leave him
2006-10-19 14:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Christina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Now you know what kind of guy he is.
2006-10-19 14:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! he just wanted to hit it!
2006-10-19 14:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by mexican_pride_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋