i dont understand it...i wish she would be slightly less cold about this..
2006-10-19 07:05:38 · 37 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? She's accepting that you have female friends and trusts you. If she was always complaining and being obsessive, you'd complain even more and get p*ssd off!!!
2006-10-19 07:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. when girls are jealous, it's not because they love you or anything, it's just that they don't trust u if they are jealous.
that ur gf isn't jealous means that she trusts u enough and u should respect that trust by not flirting with other girls and by not cheating on her.
also, she is not jealous may mean that she thinks that since u r a good lookin guy, other girls will naturally be attracted towards u and will wan t to speak to u, and since ur not rude, u'll reply.
u have a girl who trusts u and gives u freedom what else do u want? i say u're very lucky- get her a bunch of roses or something.
2006-10-19 07:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by thehelper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either you are really lucky to have a girl who is so secure in your relationship and knows how much you mean to eachother and trusts you completely or the feelings are fadin and she just doesn't really care. Check the status of your relationship and talk to her about it. Tell her you are glad she isn't psycho crazy when other females are around but that you need some reassuring that she is still 100% in the relationship and that she cares for you.
2006-10-19 07:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird nor is there anything wrong with her. Your girlfriend is confident with herself and is aware of the fact that you're going to do what you want to do whether she knows about it or not, therefore, she sees no reason to get her blood pressure up over you being who you are and doing what you're going to do. Seems that you either have or will try to do something a little extra just to get a rise out of her....don't waste your time, you're only going to show your less confident side.....leave her alone and let her chill.
2006-10-19 07:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know? Is it because she doesn't get upset or mad about it? Maybe it does bother her but she loves you and trusts you. Maybe you should talk to her and ask her the same question. I try not to flirt with anyone in front of my fiance because I don't want him to feel jealous. I want him to feel he can trust me. He knows I flirt here and there and I know he does as well. We are all human but you don't have to go out of your way to let her know. Best of luck.
2006-10-19 07:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. She sounds like she is a confident, intelligent woman who trusts you. It is a mature attitude. Jealousy is usually due to insecurity and immaturity. Jealousy happens, yes. But if a woman is honorable and mature, she usually expects her significant other to react the same. Jealousy is rarely useful and often destructive. Does she act loving toward you. If so, Celebrate! You chosen a woman who not only respects you, but respects herself as well.
2006-10-19 07:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your girlfriend is very secure with who she is and about the relationship she has with you. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, obviously you have not given her any reason to feel insecure about what she has with you. And, why would you want her to possess such an ugly trait? Consider yourself a very lucky man! She sounds like a keeper.
2006-10-19 07:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by deanie1962 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two possibilities:
1. She really couldnt care less and has other options herself.
2. She a great actress and knows youre just trying to get her to react and doesnt want to let you win.
2006-10-19 07:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deosn't love you ..
Or she loves you and she's not afraid to lose you ..then she'll end be being cold towards you ..
"THE WAY TO LOVE ANYTHING IS THAT TO REALIZE THAT IT MIGHT BE LOST"..
Get a little distant then try again ..if she's the same leave her ..it's a hopeless case ..
I've been throught that before ..and it ended up by realizing i don't love him anymore ..and i dumped him
2006-10-19 07:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe she trusts you enough not to have to worry about it, you should feel good about it and not turn it into something negative. Maybe your just use to women being jealous crazy ##%%&, enjoy your open minded woman!
2006-10-19 07:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just trusts you. With that trust comes great responsibility. Dont go and do anything to break her trust and make her worried and jealous.
2006-10-19 07:07:39 · answer #11 · answered by laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋