I realize it is a matter of growth, but does it have to be at the expense of our fellow man's integrity. People have such a hard time believing that I am trust a woman who generally cares about people, but just in this act I recieve so much ridicule, and I am told I am nieve for being so, why?
2006-10-19 07:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by fryedaddy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Not sure I get what you are saying, but here goes...
People desire to be right. If someone screws up, they will rationalize a way to make it either somehow on purpose, or at a minimum not their fault. This is especially true for parents who think their children are incapable of error.
It appears you trust a woman, and others say you should not. Why do they say this? Has she proven untrustworthy in the past? What experiences do they have? Maybe you should listen to them...maybe not. Understand that if you trust, and that trust is broken, you will gain understanding and pain. If you trust, and that trust is rewarded, you will gain understanding and bliss.
Your call.
2006-10-19 07:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satan is trying very hard to make good appear evil, and evil to appear to go good. It is a sign of the times. There is nothing wrong or naive about trusting in a woman that genuinely loves and cares about you. We men are instructed in the Scriptures to love our wives as much as we love ourselves, and our wives are instructed to obey us, not that we have a God given right to walk all over her, or treat her in just any old way, no that would not be loving her, if we would not want to be treated in a bad way then don't treat her that way ether. I am not saying that that is the way you are, I said that for those that may read this answer and may need this advise.
2006-10-19 07:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to trust when we grow up not trusting...you're a rare kind...a new breed to people who've never known trust or people who care because they do, not b/c they want something.
Also, trusting somebody often takes time. People also sometimes need to "feel you out"...test you.
For example, when you walk up to a dog, you don't just begin petting it on the head...it doesn't know you and may bite your hand. So you get down to its level, put your hand out (palm up), and allow it to sniff your hand. Sometimes it still won't trust you and you have to prove it by spending time around it so it can get used to your presence.
I'm not saying to treat people like dogs, but give them a chance to get to know you (and pray about it, too). 1 Peter 2 tells us that even when ridiculed, we should still live as God's holy people so that in our deeds, people will see God in us and glorify Him.
2006-10-19 07:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because God's words says that in the last days good shall be called evil and evil shall be called good.
Hang in there.....
2006-10-19 07:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Juliart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whose integrity?? Wrong is not right...ppl like to pretend..
2006-10-19 07:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋