should i be suspicious of heavy alcahool on the first date she wants me to drink with her i hope she doent want to get physicall on the first date, my friend says she might be a hoe because she talked rity to me the first day talking to her on msn, is she a hoe and is she trying to get me drunk to do stuff with me at dinner
should i tell her not to bring the alcahool
i just dont want to lead her on by being so physicall
2006-10-19 06:59:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i met this girl from collage
2006-10-19 07:10:50 · update #1
sorry for my spelling mistakes
2006-10-19 07:47:00 · update #2
dump her, alcohol poisons the mind, and you sound like you are wise enough to realize relationship are built on much bigger foundations than that.
2006-10-19 07:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've got alarm bells going off on this one. She's desperate and has low self-esteem. Do yourself a favor and don't drink with her and don't get physical with her. If you like her, take her out on a fun date, but keep it non-sexual and in a public place, like a carnival, or go see a show. Then end the date. Take it really slow with girls like this. Chances are she's never been treated like a lady, and may not know how to react or may feel like she doesn't deserve it. She might get bored. Whatever is going on with her, she is showing signs of self-destructive habits, and that's no good. Take it slow brother, that's all I can say.
2006-10-19 14:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by miztenacioust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hard alcohole on the first date!
It depends on the persons, but in general, this is not recommended. But once again, it depends on people's preferences of the choice of the lifestyle.
If both of you agreed on it, then I don't see anything wrong with it.
If you do end up drinking the liquer with her, both of you just be careful not to do anything you will regret under while the influence.
2006-10-19 14:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by davegesprek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Alcohol, and are you even old enough to drink??? Your spelling is terrible, try spell checker. Has it occured to you that you could cancel this date? It doesn't sound to me like she is your kind of girl. If you do go out with her and she does bring alcohol, that does not mean that you have to drink it! Sounds to me like you have a freaky party hoochie on your hands. You may want to pass her off to one of the guys that would be into that type of girl.
2006-10-19 14:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman or man that brings alcohol on a date...first or not....is someone to avoid like the Black Death.
Plus....lets say...for the sake of argument you both get sh*tfaced and uh...you get alittle action going there....consentual of course.
Next day or so the cops are at your door because she went home...ran across the boyfriend, husband or dad who finally got it out of her that she ened up in the back seat of the car with you. And she never, ever would have except: You brought the alcohol...got her drunk and then while she protested...shouted "no" and told you she did not want to have sex...you 'raped' her.
Yeah. See where I'm going with this pookey? I see this quite often so I tell you no lies. Its a possibility. I like your anti-alcohol stance. Stick with it. If anything....just think of this little scenario I laid out.
2006-10-19 14:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her not to as this is a date and if you have hard alcohol you won't know what is going on and how are you gonna talk and understand each other.
If you drink and become too violent then you can end up in jail
2006-10-19 14:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think bringing wine to a first date is not a bad thing, however if it is something else like Vodka, I would be worried! Also, don't be afraid to tell her right up front what you want and don't want from this relationship!
2006-10-19 14:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be hard on you but your spell check is your friend embrace it!
now if you are young you should be meeting people off the net and drinking
if she mention bringing liquor to dinner there is defiantly something wrong
if you doing feel comfortable with it don't do it !
PS add more detail to you question if you want better answer it really doesn't make sense
2006-10-19 14:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Missbribri 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't jump to conclusions . But "Do" stand for yourself. Let her know that you are not comfortable with the alcohol.Maybe she is trying to "impress"you. If not,then maybe she does have a problem you don't want to be involved with
2006-10-19 14:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just wants to get laid, sorry to say! Take her out instead so she can't bring the alcohol with her. Or just tell her you'd rather her not bring it.
2006-10-19 14:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the tale tale signs that she likes to get her drink on.... tell her that U are not comfortable of her bringing liquor.... or better yet don't go out w/her.... if U are asking these questions.... U know what the right thing 2do......
2006-10-19 14:04:06 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋