to cut a long story short i was just talking to my girl and since im her first boyfriend and all shes just told all her friends. She emailed one of her best guy friends about us and now hes pretty surprised...the thing is that that dude used to like her before and now he doesnt(he says) and he half jokingly told her that why shes going out with me when she turned him down...so i jokingly told her too that im better than him so she goes "na noone can replace him" and im like wtf...i know i know it sounds kiddish but whatever i just burn whenever i remember that...
2006-10-19 06:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whenever you get bothered by it, just remember that you have her now
2006-10-19 06:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She meant no one can replace him as a friend. Relax, girls can actually see guys as just freinds, and once they're there only a miracle or a Traumatic Boyfriend Event (see below for TBE) can send her into his arms.
When you think of it, and it starts pissing you off, just remember who's arms she's in now, and who will prolly never have the chance. When you think of it, and you have the chance, find her and give her a big hug and plant her a wet one. Tell her, I'm so luck to be with you, I want you to know that.
TBE is when you screw up or cheat on her or otherwise. In this event, it is possible that she will run to her friend who happens to be endowed with a d!ck like yourself. Often it's innocent, just lots of crying and stuff, but in your case, that @sswipe likes her and will prolly try to take advantage of her vulnerability to get with her. My advise is to be a good BF and not mess up, or the little phrase that burns you will end up INCINERATING you.
2006-10-19 14:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!
hey, whatever u do don't be harsh on her. be gentle with her, or she'll leave u even if she had not been planning on leaving you. just treat her well enough for her mind to stay off the other guys. as for this idiotic friend of hers, just give him a meaningful stare the next time he starts off with his nonsense and say to ur girlfrnd- 'what a nice brother u have!'
and laugh. she will get the point. and he should, too.
2006-10-19 14:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by thehelper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That other fool is butt hurt and he is talking crap because you have her now and he doesn't, so screw him and enjoy your relationship with her. An advice that will help is that girls don't like overly jealous boyfriends or over possessive.
So don't stress her out about this otherwise you will push her away and you don't want that right?
2006-10-19 14:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the choice. Either you or him. If she really likes you she will honor your request. She doesn't need his friendship.
If she can't honor it then believe me she is not worth the trouble.
If she won't honor your request stick to your guns and refuse to see her any more. Even if so snd so doesn't work out.
Good luck.
2006-10-19 14:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ohmyheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋