I have been talking to the older man (he46;me25) I saw him yesterday and he made it clear to me that he was very interested. Its not about sex, we usually talk on the phone, or run into each other. But I want to know, honest advice, what I need to do to show him that I really like him, and to get him to want me more. I am also very interested. Whats appropriate as for dating/just coincidentally running into each other and being with each other for a couple of hours. Its not really a date, but we have a great time just bumping into one another. I do have a huge attraction for him and how he makes me feel. I can't explain it, hes not a young, wild, keeping up with everybody man. But he still turns me on, and I find myself wanting to do more. Should I wear something, do something, or what? I am recently divorced, and Im also a fulltime college student, and single mother of one. I don't want to do anything crazy, but I need excitement. Please honest answers.
2006-10-19 06:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this man may not be ready for a young family. perhaps he has been there,done that. It is alright to experience it once but, do it again, not so much. Of course I could be a mile off in my thoughts, so my second thought is just to ask him, warning, you may loose him if you pursue this course, try to find out where he stands, before you take this step as he sounds like a real nice person
2006-10-19 06:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need excitement? I don't think so. You WANT excitement. Not that there's anything wrong with wanting excitement, but it amazes me how people confuse wants and needs. They're not the same thing.
Anyway, in terms of this guy, why are you trying to drop subtle hints (e.g. wearing something)? Why don't you just tell him how you feel?
2006-10-19 13:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a college student and there is someone here that I'm interested in. He42;me21. he treats me right but you have to realize that older men our attracted to beauty and intelligence. you have to show him that you can be sultry(sexy) and classy at the same time. that's what i did and i got my man. its hard because your a mother and a student. but sometimes you rarely have to do anything because an older man is happy to have a younger woman on his arm so he can brag to his friends.
2006-10-19 13:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get dolled up and ask him to spend some quality date time with each other!
Sit close to him and make little moves to show that you're interested!
2006-10-19 13:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask him out on a date. do not beat around the bush, tell him you enjoyed his company, and would like to see more of him. Time will take care of the rest.
2006-10-19 13:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how bout simply telling him how you feel,,,grow up,,,then the age difference that you have want seem like such a big deal,,,that or just get on your knees and blow him,,,either way,,,its sure to work
2006-10-19 13:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by kandcforfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be safe and follow your heart, gut feelings is best....
2006-10-19 13:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him how you feel.
2006-10-19 13:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋