Okay here is my story. I have been talking to this guy for 7, 8 months. We have went out a few times he is great in all the other ways. I have kissed him a few times but I have not slept with him. I have not had sex with anyone else. I do not know why I am scared to sleep with him. Mind you I have not had sex in a while myself. I am not ugly and he is not either so I know there is attraction but I am afraid of what he is packing. I am use to one time of guy well okay 2. Black and spanish. This guy is white that I am talking too. I just do not want to stero type. So we do talk about it then I choke up. We have not even got close to evening having sex. What should I do? Do you think I am attracting to him or I am just being shy. Mind you I am 27. He is 35.
2006-10-19 06:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he thinks you want to move slowly. This could be new territory for him too you know. Maybe he needs to know that you want to try to move this relationship forward. If you are afraid of what lies behind the zipper, don't be. You never know he could be hiding a boa constrictor!!! lmao. I have seen white men with large "members" so don't worry. Whatever he has, he will know how to work it. He is 35 and has had plenty of time to figure out how it works. While you all are doing it, tell him what you like, where you want to be touched, the same as you would with any other guy\!! MOST OF ALL ENJOY YOURSELF!!!
2006-10-19 06:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by country girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just like the first time you have sex when you have been out of it for awhile try not to judge us white boys we are gentle and don't count us out of the running either we can be hung to I would say if the problem isn't and only you know the truth that you may not trust him then I would go for it when your Nerves that's when it's the best come on you remmember the butterfly's and all that jazz the worst thing that could happen is that you wont in-joy yourself but at least then you would know.
I wish you luck on whatever you decide
2006-10-19 14:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Since birth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not about penis size! Sex is suppose to be about romance, love and tender affection. It's supposed to be the ultimate way of sharing yourself with someone else. If you've been hesistant maybe its more about not knowing your real feelings for him rather than his penis size or sexual performance.
2006-10-19 13:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by P. C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to worry about those kind of things before you know for sure. Go for it, then make your decision on if size matter. What he misses in size if any he may make up in other ways.
2006-10-19 13:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Captianpr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your probably just being shy. Don't steriotype him, white guys are great! He's probably packing just fine. Don't push yourself, when the time is right, it will happen.
2006-10-19 13:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by cowboys21angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like yu are being shy, but being careful isnt a bad thing...and its not about the race, its about the way he makes you feel..take things slow, and you will know when the time is right
2006-10-19 13:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid it's going to be small?? ~ The biggest I've seen have been from white men. ~ Do it when you're ready, I'm sure he's fine. And if he isn't, he may go out of his way to please you anyway ~ have fun!
2006-10-19 13:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you probally will never get him if he knows your past of being with black guys what were you thinking your white ,theres a old phrase, that once you go black you never go back , why that is ,is because no white guy wants you now
2006-10-19 13:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can decide if you want to have intercourse or not but if you are ready but you are not ready to have children make him wear a condom but if he wants to and you don't just say the word no and tell him you want to take things slow
2006-10-19 13:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give it a shot, u never know it might be the best sex you ever had
2006-10-19 13:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋