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I always fantasise about bad things happening to me and the resulting sympathy i get. I do it without thinking and don't mean to. Ive always been reasonably popular and have a solid family and plenty of freinds, so why am i like this? Is there and official name for it?

2006-10-19 06:45:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

28 answers

Why medicalise it. Nothing you have said sounds like a mental illness or a personality disorder. Of course noone can diagnose over the internet but I think these are very common thoughts that lots of people get. Don't worry about it

2006-10-19 07:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Mad cyclist 4 · 1 0

If you are popular and find it easy to communicate with people ask a friend or better still friends. I expect a broad spectrum of opinion will tell you that you are quite normal, like others on this page I think you are trying to access some of your more primitive coping skills, with a little mental role play.
Good luck I hope nothing bad happens to you and as Christmas approaches you never know your luck.

2006-10-19 07:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mayomaiden 3 · 1 0

Sounds like OCD - obsessive compulsive disorder. But best to contact a doctor who can give you a proper diagnosis. You have only given a brief description of your life and the symptoms you are experiencing so it would be difficult for someone on here to give a definate answer.

2006-10-20 07:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are absolutely normal. It is your body's way of checking that you are still watching out for dangerous things happening to you. A good example is when you are standing next to a train platform or on a bridge you will get a sensation like "wonder what it would feel like to fall down there", then you take a step back and shiver. It is just human nature there to protect you.

2006-10-19 07:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 1 1

u could be depressed????? its not that thinking of the bad stuff thats really bad, but its looking for the sympathy??? do u love and respect urself, learn to appreicate ur self and then u will soon realise that u wont feel or think this way anymore good luck

2006-10-19 06:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by misssherlock06 3 · 0 0

Sounds like you are a bit ego-centric. Nothing to worry about unless you start acting out self abuse fantasies or lying to get sympathy. Then you are on the way to #hitsville

2006-10-19 06:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sounds like you have a symptom of borderline personality disorder. Type in DSMV1 and it will give you a list of all the other symptoms that psychiatrists use to make this diagnosis. If you don't have any of the other symptoms I wouldn't worry about it, everybody needs a little attention now and then. Maybe you don't feel that you get enough so you are using your mind to imagine what it might be like.

2006-10-19 06:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

The only person that can give you a diagnosis is a professional that has insight to all different types of info.

A counselor, MD, etc.

Good luck

2006-10-19 15:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Psychogirlfrog 4 · 0 0

Sounds like you enjoy attention and maybe right now, you are not getting as much 'nurturing' as you would like. Let those close to you, such as a partner know that you need more looking after.
BUT make sure you look after them too!

2006-10-19 07:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by delyth h 2 · 2 0

paranoia quickly comes to mind. But to be honest, I hate mental health labels. They are meaningless. You have a problem of dwelling on things too much. Do not be too insecure

2006-10-19 07:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Clementinah N 1 · 1 0

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