There is this girl i really like. I am 18 and she is 26. One night we went to a party. We danced almost the whole night. she was holding my hand alot and so was i. I mean we really had a blast and i was reallly into her. We talked and stuff and we were doin great. the next day i saw her again. We were hugging and cuddling for a while. But the thing is we have been frends for about a year. and i dont know whether or not she is really into me...or just playin around....i dont know if to ask her out..or what to do..please ladies i need your help...what should i do?
2006-10-19 06:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by kazuya80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello... talk to her! I know that I love it when guys talk to me about this type of stuff. Ask her if she is in to you or just playin'. This is what happens most of the time when a guy and a girl are "friends" for a while, they start to get to know each other and really liking one another(if your lucky.) Do not let this moment pass. What do you know, she might just be waiting for you to ask her out because she doesn't want to "scare" you away by doing it herself. She is probably thinkin' the same thing that you are thinkin'. JUST TALK TO HER> what do you have to lose??
2006-10-19 06:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would generally advise people *not* to try to date their friends because it can spoil a really great friendship-- things will never be able to go back to the way they were before you started being romanticly engaged.
But, if you think it is worth the risk, go for it. And I would not worry about the age difference too much (as long as you are intellectually and emotionally mature enough for a serious relationship with an older woman). It's the 21st centry! ;)
2006-10-19 13:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Laralou`07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in speaking what is on my mind..so I say tell her you have feelings for her..if she doesnt have feeling for you atleast you found out then you can move on.be honest with her you will feel better or worse..worse for a while until you meet the woman of you dreams.
love is tricky thing.
2006-10-19 13:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With an age difference like that, you had better find out if she is just being flirty.
2006-10-19 13:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by madevali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her but in a sly kind of way, dont go right out and ask her, just bring up your relationship and where it is going
2006-10-19 13:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rochellelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. If she gives you the wrong reaction then she is probably playing with your feelings.
2006-10-19 13:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short go for it
2006-10-19 13:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont ask her than you'll never know what you could be missing.
2006-10-19 13:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Paige S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋