I thought i had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago and went to the docs and they confirmed that i had. Now i feel relly low and wish i didnt lose it. Does the pain im feelin ever get easier?
2006-10-19 06:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does get easier, I had two. The last one was 9 years ago, and sometimes I still wonder what might have been.
My heart goes out to you, hang in there!
2006-10-19 06:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I won't be a b*** about it. Here's the deal. You are not asking for a miscarriage, you're asking for an abortion. A miscarriage is not something you cause, it just happens. Yes you're young, but you're full aware of the consequences of sex. Stop hitting your stomach, you're hurting yourself. First of all you haven't even missed your period yet, so stop worrying. Second, wait until you do miss your period and go to the doctor. If you need to lie to your parents well what the heck, do it, but go to the doctor. You will cause more damage if you are indeed pregnant and try to abort the baby at home. You will most likely bleed out badly and be rushed to the E.R. Can you imagine a worse way to tell your parents you were pregnant and tried to kill your baby at home? So forget that ok. There are other options, I'm totally against abortion but if it's something you want to do and need to do then you have to go to a professional. You must, must, must go to the doctor. Please don't tell me you can't go to the doctor because of your parents, you obviously got away from them long enough to have sex, so I'm sure you can sneak out to go seek medical help. Not yet though, wait for your period and please stop hurting yourself. Oh, one more thing, get on some other type of birth control, condoms alone sometimes aren't enough. Good luck sweety.
2016-03-28 01:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does get easier. What youre feeling is normal, and even necessary, even though this sounds funny. If you did not feel a loss, there would be something wrong. So dont panic about feeling bad, its good that youre feeling bad, it means you are having a normal reaction to a real painful experience. No-one should have to go through that. Good luck.
2006-10-19 06:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I have never had a miscarriage my daughter has miscarried twins. She was devastated. I told her that God has his plan although that wasn't a big help, but the Dr's told her that after her next period she could attempt again. Low and behold she is now pregnant. Good Luck and God Bless You
2006-10-19 06:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by lpdecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me about a month or so to get through mine. You have to remember, you were pregnant. All of the hormones and emotions are still there. It takes a while for your system to get back to normal. Give yourself so time, don't rush to get pregnant again. Keep in your mind, it wasn't anything you did. Nature has a way of stepping in and taking care of these things. Good luck to you...
2006-10-19 06:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by kcastillo1220 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes time.... you have to push yourself to get passed it. For a while I didn't want to see a baby or look at baby clothes. Its been 9 mts now and I have finally let go. Just know that its not the last time for you. Keep trying or accomplish the goals that you have set for yourself first.
2006-10-19 06:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does eventually. You'll always look back, and think of what it would have been if you have the child, what you would have named the child, and what they would have looked like. It will always stick with you. It does get easier though. I can't really explain why it does. Sorry for your loss.
2006-10-19 06:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by nautical_star8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to my friend it took her a long time to get over and although she'll never forget it she learned how to cope with it so yes the pain your feeling will heal just not over night mind yourself and take every day as it comes i really for you hun i watched my friend go through this and it really hurts take care of yourself.P.S she found talking to her friends about it helped alot so dont bottle anything up!
2006-10-19 06:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will. It is very common to have a sense of loss after miscarriages. You need to grieve and get it all out
2006-10-19 06:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does, as time goes on, but there will always be some kind of sadness at that loss. Miscarriages are always hard :(
2006-10-19 06:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋