im in my teens, in secondary school, and theres dis girl who ive like for such a loong time, and i asked her out before and she wasnt direct with her answer, although it did mean dat she didnt want to and now i seem to like her again, although wen eva im around her i neva talk to her, and im usually with a mate of mine, and he gets along perfectly with her and i jus sit feelin like a clown and not sayin a word.. do i let her know that i still like her or do i leave it and try to move on?
2006-10-19 05:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be straight with her.
I fancied one of my mates for 6 months and didn't say anything. I completely ruined my chances. The day I was going to make a move...we went out...I was nervous and drank a bit too much...my ex shows up and I kissed her before telling my mate I liked her.
My friend now has a bf, and nearly a year after metting her there's still a part of me that kicks myself about why I was so foolish.
Worst thing she can do is say no and that she just sees you as a friend. There's nothing to lose at this moment and nothing apart from fear and pride stopping you.
Go & do it now !
2006-10-19 06:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Edward R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think you should leave it and move on. When I can't talk to people it usually means I really fancy them or lust after them, not that I genuinely like the person. If you told her you liked her once and she didn't take you up on it then, you don't need to put yourself in that position again.
2006-10-19 12:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should 1st try be her friend untill u become really close from her then ask her indirectly for example tell her (( if somebody asks u, will u accept?)) some stuffs like dat and depending on her answer decide what to do
2006-10-19 13:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by sanita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should at least try to find out. I mean you should ask her yourself but maybe you could ask you friend to ask her 4 you if they get along so well. she might not be as kool as you think she is if she's not giving you a chance. you seem like a guy with a good heart.
2006-10-19 12:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by dabluschmosprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her!! But this time get a clear answer from her. Don't back off if u really like her. Do something sweet..take her a flower and tell her how u feel!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-19 12:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by calibeauty3698 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy its easy, spend time with her listen to her talk to her go aside you big man ego and(heres the hard part) tell her how you feel, and if she feels the same it should be easy from the on out.
2006-10-19 12:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel again...if she likes you back she'll tell you. If not its just a no. It'll be hard to get over but after that...dont bug her anymore!
2006-10-19 12:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Snap Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it and move on if she felt the same you would be going out with her the first time. good luck x
2006-10-19 13:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a very passionate love letter about her get her roses and write her a poem or a box of candy
good luck!!!
2006-10-19 12:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Faraasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are good advice. you can tell you, that is what you proberly need to do. just let her know that yo ulike her.
2006-10-19 12:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by tribenallchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋