I am thinking my bf was not honest when telling me about his dating history saying he only slept with 7 girls he is 22 years old .His female friends who dont like me comment that i dont look like his type and i look to pure to be his.That I am too inocent looking and about anything i wear being to conservative. Apparently they are suprised we have not had sex yet and that i have no experience really only one partner i. He apparently is known for one night stands and has had sex with three of them and is known for sleeping around.Should i ask my bf if this is true?his male buddys would not talk ?
2006-10-19 05:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this because of our age gap me only 18 and him 22.I feel weird about being surrounded by girls he slept with
2006-10-19 05:47:21 · update #1
You should ask him. You need to know his history before you sleep with him. Tell his friends to get a life. But be careful you never know if he is just trying to take advantage of you.
2006-10-19 05:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Britni Gayle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel uncomfortable if I were forced to hang around girls my man has slept with too anyone would.
Does it really matter, honestly, how many people he has slept with?
You are waiting until you think it is the right time for you and when you do decide it is the right time hopefully no matter how many partners he has had you will use protection.
If he had asked you and you had more than x amount of partners it would turn him off completely, and he probably would be concerned with that.
If he is waiting for you to be comfortable and he isn't sleeping with anyone else while the two of you are dating then does it really matter. Maybe he is tired of the one night stands and the sluts maybe he is ready for a real relationship and you are the type of girl he has in mind to settle down with. I would stop worrying about other peoples comments and concern myself with more pressing matters in life.
2006-10-19 06:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a cool situation at all. I'd definately talk to him about your concerns. I'd ask him if it were true and i would also let him know that you don't feel comfortable "kickin it" with your previous sex partners. Your concern is very justified. You sound like a good girl, and he sounds, well... If he doesn't want to do anything about your concerns please leave him alone. Always remember 'actions speak louder than words'.
2006-10-19 05:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..first off.. if these girls dont like you adn have slept with him..they are trying to mess with your head..ok? you should'nt be listening to them and first of all you should communicate with your boyfriend...if these girls doesnt like you they are trying to get you out...
and if your bf was really like this why would he still be with you?
if he i snot getting sex from you and he always does then why would he be with you? and the age is not a problem... im your age and my bf is his age we been together for 2 1/2 yrs so i dont think that's the problem...
the thing is that you have to talk to him and start trusting him more... and stop being sooo on top of him... try giving him space and see if he goe safter you...
2006-10-19 05:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be rude, but you are not ready for a relationship. You worry too much about things that do not matter. This is a prime example of why relationships do not work out........Worry about communicating with one another on what makes the other one happy, not about BS that has nothing to do with "now" & "tomorrow".
2006-10-19 05:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is weird to be surrounded by girls your boyfriend has had sex with. Ask your boyfriend about his past if he lies again tell him if it's true if he says it is he was probably just embarrassed and didn't want to sound like a whore to you.
2006-10-19 05:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a virgin 'only ne guy' but are not having sex?? I would think if you do not start real soon you are going to end up fat, lonely, depressed and posting bitter questions like the other fat lonely depressed twats on here. When he comes home, do oral to completion, Anal outdoor stuff and spice it up or he will find someone who will. Submit to his needs or live that life I described..choice is yours, thousands of women are waiting to fill your shoes and have him fill them.....including his ex g/f's
2006-10-19 05:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age has nothing to do with it....if he is disrespecting you with these other girls...you really dont need him....the most important thing if he is sleeping around..is to be careful of STD's lol, you definitely dont want none of that.
2006-10-19 05:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him ..it seems weird..maybe those girls lie to you ..anyway ask him.I guess maybe he likes you and ready for having a serious relationship..because he didn't comment you being conservative..or too innocent to him !!!
and it seems like he's trying tnot to scary you by his past ..
2006-10-19 06:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it really bothers you yes I'd talk to him about it but sometimes other girls will say things to make you jealous. Maybe they're jealous of you cause he treats you better then the other girls ;o) or maybe they hope things won't work with you so they could have him.
2006-10-19 05:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋